I have been married 19 years. We both confided in eachother about past secrets. When we were separated he was naked in bed with a woman, he originally lied to me about the full story, anyway he did not have sex with her, he said he was drunk and couldn't because he loved me. I believed him and forgave him. So I told my husband about a one night stand I had in college. I lied to him about it when ..