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I cheated on my husband

Friday, March 25, 2016 3:13 PM by Guest Rating: +4|-10

i cheated on my husband the first year we were married. My husband is an amazing guy. I love him so much. People just fuck up in life. I honestly don't know what to do. I figured spilling it out here might make me feel better. I doubt it. But here goes. When my husband was away I felt lonely. I didn't go out seeking someone. At least that's what I thought. I ended up meeting this guy. He was cool. He listened to me talk about my husband and my family. Then we started hanging out and I kissed him. I felt really shitty. It was nice hanging someone there. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex a few days later. I felt super shitty about this. I never told my husband, he found out by the dude. I honestly hope I can build my husbands trust again I don't want to lose him. I wish I could take back what I did. But I can't. 

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Friday, March 25, 2016 4:31 PM
D

Well, I think you need to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about the cheating, your feelings, and what you want for the future? You're right that you can't take back what you did. There's no point feeling shitty (though I'm sure your husband would like to see some remorse). You should think about a solution to your problem and what you can do to correct this. Because you didn't tell your husband and he found out from someone else might make him wonder if there were other times when you betrayed him. This is not going to be solved in a day. You're going to need to be patient and wait until he's emotionally stable to talk to. You can try seeing a marraige counselor or therapist together.

 
Friday, March 25, 2016 6:59 PM
Guest

Here's the problem: no matter how much you say you love your husband it was not enough to keep you from going out and fucking a stranger. So, think about that for a moment...now, how much could you really love your husband if you could not avoid hurting him by cheating on him because you were horny and liked the loser that was willing to fuck a married woman? Those are the facts. In conclusion, you don't love your husband at all. You don't even respect him or your marriage. The best thing you could do is to set your husband free to find a decent wife and give him a chance at a happy life. You have ruined your marriage and your husband will Never trust you again, never allow himself to care for you again and will only feel disgust at the thought of sex with a cheater. If you doubt me, ask him. 

 
Friday, March 25, 2016 7:43 PM
Guest

You're just a dirty slag who couldn't keep her legs closed. People like you are disgusting and don't deserve to have a decent partner.

Here's a tip: Try keeping your legs closed around other men,, and remember your wedding vows and the reasons that you wanted to marry your man in the first place. He obviously deserves much better than somebody who can't control herself.

 
Friday, March 25, 2016 10:23 PM
Guest

I'm one of those who finds the whole concept of wife sharing very arousing.. My friend has been sharing his wife with me for the past 25 years. I love them both as I know they love me as well. My relationship with them has not impacted their life with thier 2 sons in any way and they both have thier own families now. Its a win-win situation, but you need to be open about it so that no one is hurt in t he process. Stay happy..

 
Saturday, March 26, 2016 3:50 AM
Guest

The betrayed partner, your husband, is likely more interested in your future, your breakthroughs n not in your setbacks.

But to have any breakthrough in your marriage, You must heal yourself first. He'll heal second. 

A few sein yourselflf questions like these should help you find the right kind of healing:

1. under similar circumstances, you're lonely n yearning, your husband away, nice guy comes around, would you fall for this nice guy like you did before? 

2. What precautions could you have taken beforehand that could have prevented your affair from happening? 

3. Do you feel the eventual affair or sexual incident was entirely your fault? Maybe a little blame, like 10%, 30% or 60% blame could have been your husband's? 

4. You said you felt shitty. Did you totally, unequivocally flush out any passion that you had for the extra guy after feeling shitty?

If you work on yourself more on why what happened had to happen, you can make the right adjustments. Your husband, seeing newfound commitment in you may heal with time. But if you find lapses in your partner, rather than lapses in yourself, sit down with him n talk about it or get counselling help. 

 

 
Saturday, March 26, 2016 5:05 AM
Guest

I think you feel shitty that you got caught not that you actually cheated. 

 
Thursday, March 31, 2016 6:05 AM
Lana

So many stories here with the " I love my hubby so much, he's an amazing man" but i was more than happy to fuck other men. Oh no! I feel terrible. What ever shall i do? 

 

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