Thursday, August 20, 2015 5:52 PM by Broken Hearted
I caught my wife cheating via phone records and pictures in her phone. From May 26 - June 29 - my wife of 10 years was talking to a friend of hers she reconnected with on Facebook. They knew each other and ran in the same circles 25 years ago. I first got suspicious on July 1st when I logged into my bank account and noticed a Paypal charge for over $190. I immediately texted her to inquire. At that time I couldn't see who the vendor was - so she said I have no idea - let me call PayPal and see what's going on. I don't have a Paypal account - so she knows it had to be her card. The next day I log into my account and the name of the vendor shows up - "SpringHill Suites". I texted her again from work and asked her why would her card be used at a hotel. Lies after lies after lies. I then log into my T-Mobile account to check her phone records - over 1500 minutes alone were dedicated to this one number, 40 text messages, and 30 Facetimes. I took the telephone number and googled it. The number was actually tied to someone's name - I took the name a searched for him on Facebook - sure enough they were friends. I went on his Facebook page and scrolled down to a specific date that I knew my wife - being a stay at home mom/part time worker needed to be onsite at her corporate location on a specific day after telling me she needed to go in weeks prior too. Well the guy flew from ATL to Fort Lauderdale the same day she was to be at work. Long story short - she was there with him for 8 hours - they attempted to have sex three times but per her - she was uncomfortable and he couldn't penetrate let alone get up - which I find hard to believe. She sent him pics of her vagina and he sent pics of his penis - weeks before the meet up. She also downloaded over 36 unfaithful/adulterous songs in her iTunes 4 days before the meet up. The betrayed me, deceived me, and manipulated me. Right under my nose... I had no idea! I left worknearlybtonpixknour son and daughter up from summer camp just so she could "go to work and attend a dinner outing with her team"... Unbelievable - she was at the hotel from 10AM - 6PM. SHOULD I GET A DIVORCE? I can't trust her anymore. She did this 30 days before our 10th Anniversary. I believe she loved him - she tells me it was only a mental space. She's been apologetic and crying daily. I don't know what I should do.