A drunken mistake

I cheated on my boyfriend

Monday, May 9, 2016 10:52 AM by Guest Rating: +1|-5

I had a one night stand with a friend on a night out. From what he told me I was all over him, in front of all his friends. We ended up leaving together and had sex. All his friend put to and to together, they know something has happen between us. I have a boyfriend so the next day I told him that I just got with this lad In his house. I love my boyfriend so very much and if I told him the really truth that we had sex, he wouldn't be able to cope and it would deffo be over. I want to spend my life with him. But I feel I was to young when I first starting going out with him. The bad thing is I enjoyed spending time with the other lad but I know that it was a one off as he is only after one thing. After it happened he was telling me how I should go on dates with him. This has really confused me, we have also had sex before but that was years ago and nothing happened after that between us. I havent told my boyfriend that I had sex with is other lad, I just said I pulled him. I feel so guilty but I can't tell him the whole true because that would mean it's over for good. I'm more scared of other people making it worst.

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Wednesday, May 11, 2016 7:52 AM

Guest

he will find out eventually, and when he does I hope your life is utterly destroyed for lieing to him. Id feel some sort of sympathy for you if you told the truth but you didnt so I dont.

Thursday, May 12, 2016 1:49 AM

Guest

You will not be able to handle it. Keeping a big secret like that would eat you alive. There are witnesses too. If he truely loves you he will forgive you and if you really love him you should put up with him and the drama after that. Good luck.

Thursday, May 12, 2016 3:53 PM

Guest

If my girlfriend told me straight up, i'll respect her alot more and probably try to work it out. Since I see a long future with her, but if I found out another way. There would be zero chance and you wouldn't want to live 50 years with a secret like that. You seem like you care, so I would tell him... but don't expect it to go well. There will be alot of work left.

Friday, August 12, 2016 7:35 AM

Guest

You Call it a drunken mistake, but it wasn't. You chose to do this when you chose to go out drinking with a guy while you were in a relationship with someone else. It wasn't an accident. You chose to engage in risky behavior. You have poor judgment, or you wanted it to happen. You are a poor candidate for a relationship with anyone. I'd suggest leaving this relationship and spending a few years becoming a better person.

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