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Advice?

My girlfriend cheated on me

Monday, March 7, 2016 11:08 AM by Lost guy Rating: +6|-8

I've been seeing a younger woman for about 6 months -- I am 36 and she is 23. We met on a Fetish website seeking Dom/sub relationships. We clicked so well and both very new to that type of lifestyle, we decided to become boyfriend/girlfriend and Dom/sub. 

We live about 2.5 hours from each other which creates many issues. We would see each other once a week in the beginning but lately it's been more like once a month. We would talk every day, assign tasks and rules that she would complete. Phone contact was 24/7 essentially.

Rules were no entertaining attention from other men...for sure no intimacy. We discussed exploring more with 3somes...which was a bad idea. She claimed to know a guy, never hooked up with him and was not attracted to him -- seemed purely for experience. I went away last weekend and it turned out she went to him and hooked up. She admitted this to me and I lost it. I demanded she cut him off ASAP. She claimed to and showed me the text. I wanted to believe it but knew better...

She came to my house yesterday. We hung out, hooked up and had dinner. She continued to say she felt bad and didn't know how to get past it all. She claimed to love me and wanted to work things out. I was driving her back to her car post dinner and decided to ask her if she would show me her phone. She suggested this prior to meeting up. She refused and finally admitted to still texting this guy...in fact he sent her a pic of himself and his daughter...wtf? This was a huge blow to my ego. Dude is 45ish, seasonal lifeguard and uneducated with a child. I know this shouldn't matter but stating for context. She actually met this guy because he was her instructor one summer for lifeguard school or something. I gave her an ultimatum -- choose me or him. Cut him or I walk. She sat in my car with this dramatic stare and kept refusing. I asked for a necklace back that I gave her earlier in the day (no shame lol). She left a Valentines Day card in my car and that was that.

 

She has attempted to text me several times since the incident last night but I have not  responded.  Mostly small talk to see if she can get a response, nothing of substance or cutting the other guy off.

Any advice? I want to mail her back the sealed and unopened card she got me and say nothing ever again.

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Monday, March 7, 2016 1:32 PM
Guest

Why do you have to mail back the sealed card? 

 
Monday, March 7, 2016 1:36 PM
Lost guy

I guess I wanted to make a statement. Immature, I know...just dealing with a bruised ego at this point. Along with passive aggressive text !messages from her.

 
Monday, March 7, 2016 1:44 PM
Guest

There is nothing for you to cry about. This whole thing was based on sexual fetish and fucking. It was never based on a need to develop an emotional bond. So she ran off to hump on another cock. To her it makes no difference which cock will screw her, just as much you didn't care about her as long as she fucked in the way you wanted. Just move on. 

 
Monday, March 7, 2016 4:02 PM
Guest

It's alright to text her back. Be civil, but there's no need to be friendly with someone who cheated on you. I would just text back "Please delete me from your contacts." If you did get back together with her and ended up getting married, it would be funny explaining how you met on a fetish site. Lol.

 
Tuesday, March 8, 2016 5:34 AM
Guest

No need to respond I agree with the guys on top, it was never serious to her. You was a fantasy  and now she has an older man. Find somen else.  You can still fuck her but let her know it's just fucking no relationship.

 
Tuesday, March 8, 2016 10:56 PM
Guest

You hooked up with a freak at a freak show. Does her freak behavior really surprise you? Of course, you were at the show as well. First, get some therapy - you have some problems. Second, forget about her, she has even more problems. Your lifestyle is a clue to why your life is fucked up. 

 
Wednesday, March 9, 2016 6:14 PM
Guest

Hmm, well doesn't seem like your girlfriend is in love with you as she claims to say. You should text back to her, ask her the same question- you or the other dude. You don't have to say anything else. As for the sealed card, open it. Just open to see what it has to say. Don't mail it back just yet, but if it seems pointless in your view, then mail it back to her.

 
Sunday, March 13, 2016 9:01 PM
Guest

Dump her. Find someone closer. 

 

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