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My boyfriend cheated on me

Thursday, April 14, 2016 10:37 AM by sillysally Rating: +3|-3

I've been on and off with my little ones dad for about 6 years. Wow that's a long time. Anyways, there was red flags that I should of paid attention to. Last summer we decided to try to work things out again. Things were great. We moved in together in January and things went south. Problem after problem. His ex sticks her nose intoneverything. So the fights began. His children not getting along with my children. So recently he was stalking my fb and one of my friends fb pages. He found posts from a couple years ago and lost his cool. The posts were innocent. For example let's hang out, or the movie was fun. I then decided to move out.  He told me that I was an ugly human being and I needed to honor and respect him. That it didn't matter that we weren't together. I posted on my wall about being heartbroken. And I received so many messages of screen shots of him hitting on women on fb. While me and him was together. He has sent random messages about his work but has never asked about our son. I don't know how to handle that situation. 

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Thursday, April 14, 2016 3:53 PM
Guest

Hi sillysally if you have a stable job the only thing you can do is to move out to your relationship because you're in unhealthy relationship. You already see some signs that he doesn't love and respect you at all. If he sneaked out to your fb account it means that he doesn't trust you at the same time he's paranoid if you're doing the same thing what he did to you when you were together. You don't need to be afraid. And if I were you, you just need to focus to your career and kids first before entering in another relationship because people who have been single for too long are the hardest to love. They have become so used to being single, independent and self suficient that it takes something extraordinary to convince them that they need you in their life.

God Bless!

-"She"

 
Friday, April 15, 2016 12:57 PM
Guest

Hang in there, don't go back. The controlling ones always have the most issues.

 

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