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Advice to women that might cheat

My wife cheated on me

Monday, October 12, 2015 1:10 PM by Guest Rating: +9|-6

I have been reading some posts from sites like this where wives that say they love their husbands but cheated or love their husband but are thinking about cheating --

I am 60 years old and my first wife cheated on me within 6 months of getting married -- we had dated on and off for 4 years prior to that. I was young and stupid and looking back should not have gotten married that young but I was in love and she said she was too. 

I won't go into the details of what she did but I can tell you even 35 years later it effects me and I can't see a movie where a loving wife makes a in the moment  mistake and cheats on her loving husband that I don't get so upset I almost scream at the TV --I don't under stand how anyone man or women could say you love your mate and could not live without them but yet still cheat.  The pain I felt back then almost killed me and took 10 years to find someone I could trust again and marry. 

You need to talk to your mate and tell them if something is wrong and keep telling them instead of cheating and then making a excuse .  Any for not telling after and saying you will never do it again --He will find out believe me -- you will act different and it will eat at you and then the lies will make it 10 times worse -Don't do it !!

Make him listen or seperate first -don't become a cheater -you will never be looked at again by him the same way -He might say he forgives but he will always think about it .  It will destroy him and like me it will hurt the rest of his life like it happened yesterday.

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Monday, October 12, 2015 8:48 PM
Guest

I am 69 years old and my first wife had sex with another man after we were married for 5 years.  Our marriage was fine and she confessed her affair to me.  She only had sex with him once and felt very guilty about it.  I know he went down on her and she had an orgasm.  She told me they used a condom.  I cannot get the picture of her having sex withis man out of my even though it is over 40 years ago. I don't think I will ever get over it.  I cannot believe she would have given her body to another man so they could have sexual pleasure.  

 

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