A lot of what guest above says is true. He is using for his own selfish but his selfish is that he's going thru a bad phase in his relationship. He has no intentions of leaving his wife for you. He wants and needs you to be available for when HE wants you. You will always be on his time because a married man isn't available. He has to put his family 1st. Eventually he will get caught or his conscious real get the best of him. He doesn't sound like a cheater he is using cheating to fix his problem. Once the problem is brought to the surface or once problem solved poof be gone with ya. Once him and his wife get back on track he will get rid of you out of fear of being caught. You need to fix your character because sounds like you would want to be a wife one day and you will be with a man that's going to cheat on you left and right 

  Don't listen  to  these people if this was the Olympics  you would be in 2nd place. Hey that a silver medal. 😂

I don't know how he makes you fell like your the only one on the world when he clearly goes home to his wife when he's done with you so obviously your not the only one in the world