Tuesday, September 13, 2016 9:12 PM by Boston
I have a question that I would like a real unbiased opinion from normal everyday people.My wife recently admitted to an emotional affair with her boss of 25 years.she said it started when she was 19 and just staerted working at this company.A little background,my wife Sara has always been beautiful she had just finished competing in the teen u.s.a. pageant.Tall,skinny,long legs.green eyes,ect.Her boss 28 years old,married,overweight,his wife just had a child,and average looking,was immediatly attracted to her.I'll call him Paul.This was her first full time corporate job and she was very nieve,trusting,and impressionable.At the very beggining paul would show times of anger by throwing something across the kitchen,ripping the phone off the wall after a sick call ect.This frightened her but he was always nice and attentive to her.Within a couple of months of her working there paul told her she had to attend an after hours wine tasting event that was part of her job(they are both chefs)During the event she noticed paul was being overly nice and flirting with her.At the end as they were leaving a cowrker who was with them said she had to use the bathroom,this is when paul leaned in.got real close and was going to kiss her.(we were just dating at the time)but was interupted when the coworker came out of the bathroom.She has admited that she is attracted to men of power,who seem to have the perfect life,(good job, house,wife,kids.ect..)and listened,complimented her,also was responsible for her raises,awards,and promotions.She said absoluetly nothing ever happened after this they never even talked about it.But since then,she has admitted,telling him intimate,personal details about me and our relationship,every argument and all of my faults(most exagerated)confiding in him,trusting him,looking up to him and having a crush on him.They went to dozens of after hour corporate events,team building, and parties,also employee only christmas parties.within a year or two she was going with him alone,waering mini skirts,high heals,and lace thigh high stockings.(she said on one occasion in his car she pulled up her skirt to show him the lace and he felt her thigh.Also they joined the company gym and she would wear tight cotton yoga shorts.for a time they would rollerblade and she said she would skate ahead of him so he could see her perfect legs and ass.At events he would parade her around like she was his girlfriend,mistriss,date,whatever.I found the shorts doing laundry one day and flipped out!she said she wouldn't wear them @ the gym,but bought another pair.That went on for about 10 years.Also she never wore lace thigh highs for me,even on our honeymoon!She told me ther was flirting back and forth for her entire career(25 years)She even brought to work a very skimpy bathing suit and modeled it for him.they had regular weekly closed door meetings,performance goals,reviews,career planning,and discussions.They also cateered dozens of off site events together.I used to wonder why she always put blond highlights in her hair(she is a brunette)now I know she did it for 25 years becuse paul demanded it.Keep in mind all this was kept a secret from me,Paul(fucking scumbag)even acted like he was my friend,but always seemed a little distant.Sara has lied continuosly about everything.This took a year of conceling to come out.Some other notes,she had a o.n.s.in college got an s.t.d. and gave it to me lied about it until recently,also flirted with many men.outright lied about why she was going into work early(said she was checking e-mails,but didn't have a computer with her at all).there is much more.she says they never ever had sex and loves only me,but i find it hard to believe .What do you think??One more thing,she passed a lie-detecter test!!the whole thing is fucked up!