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Am I the "other guy"?

My girlfriend cheated on me

Sunday, June 5, 2016 8:37 AM by Guest Rating: +3|-3

I wasn't really sure which category to put this in...  i've been seeing this girl for a few months and i guess it was getting pretty serious.  she's 23, single mom with two kids.  from the beginning i was never skeptical about what she told be regarding her past relationships, she mainly said that her having two kids was always a deal breaker with her when trying to date and thats why she liked me, i didn't see it a problem as long as she was willing to have another kid, of course i want a child of my own.  we did normal things coulples do, go out to eat, drink, she even spent the night a few times saying that her mom would watch the kids.  i was friends with her cousin on facebook and her family was going through a death of her grandfather recently so there was a lot of pics being posted and some with her in it.  there was one pic, she was in and there was a white guy in a navy uniform standing right behind her and on her left hand was a wedding ring.  now this was strange to me because she's asian and everyone else in the pic was asian.  so why is this guy in the pic?  and every other pic that she was in, he was right there next her.  so i did some more snooping on instagram, i was looking up some of her friends and i found her on a friends list and her profile was private so i couldn't see any pictures but her last name on the profile matched the name on the guys uniform in the other pic.  so i'm starting to put two and two together... so i start asking her about her kids father and she tells me that its been over a year since she spoke to him.  so idk maybe this guy is the father or not?  either way she's still lying to me and lying to him.  she still tells me that she's been single besides dating me but that picture clearly had her with a wedding ring on and later on all those pics were removed from facebook.  this is probably an easy question to answer... i should stop seeing her right?  its just been so long since i found someone that i actually liked that it sucks to find something like this out.  i really thought she could've been the one for me.

Tags: Dating; Kids; NAVY; Pictures;

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Monday, June 6, 2016 7:20 AM
Guest

    EXPOSE THE BITCH.  FIND THE NAVY GUY ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND TELL HIM. THIS GUY IS SERVING  OUR COUNTRY, RISKING HIS LIFE FOR OUR FREEDOM. WHEN IT COMES  TO  CHEATERS SHE IS THE WORST  OF THE WORST. THATS NOT SOMEONE  YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE.  TAKE PICTURES, SAVE TEXT MESSAGES AND EMAILS FOR PROOF. THANK HIM FOR SERVING OUR COUNTRY  SEND HIM THE PROOF AND MOVE ON FROM 👲 ( racist comment alert-----> LING LING 5 DOLLAR SUCKY, SUCKY ASS. <------racist comment alert. )

 
Monday, June 6, 2016 4:39 PM
Guest

agreed with the top, find out how to tell the husband yourself, you dont want him to find out from someone else becuase if he does and he finds you he may hurt you. 

 
Tuesday, June 7, 2016 10:17 AM
Guest

you need to let this guy know... while he's out there defending our country his wife is out fucking around.  that's not cool.  who knows how many other guys there are or how long she has been doing this.

 
Tuesday, June 7, 2016 5:54 PM
Guest

Get the evidence, get the info on the father and get it to him. Then get out of there. Nothing good will come from any of this. There is a tornado of pain headed that way - run. 

 
Wednesday, June 8, 2016 3:47 AM
Guest

Confront her and send her packing.

 
Friday, June 10, 2016 12:40 PM
Guest

I am a navy wife, and THIS ABSOLUTELY INFURIATES ME! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE find this guy and let him know. You may think that this girl is your world and you have a great connection but i promise you, anyone who loves or really likes another person would not keep them in the dark about something like this. She is hurting someone who loved her enough to marry her and put TWO BABIES in her belly so they could be a family. She is not someone you want to develope deeper feelings for. Think about it? If she is messing around on him with you (and probably others) she will DEFINITELY be messing around on YOU even if she does leave her husband (which she wont by the way). So hopefully you don't play the pick me game with this girl and you let her husband know that she is cheating and involving HIS KIDS. Be the bigger man, you didn't knowingly hook up with a married women, but now that you know, karma will be a bitch if you continue this relationship.

 
Monday, June 13, 2016 11:09 AM
Guest

you're right... i found out that she has been doing the same thing with other guys but the only thing is she blocked me from all her social media and all i know about the guy is his last name.  i tried searching him on facebook by last name but i couldn't find anything.  obviously she's not returning any of my calls or texts.  and i can't really talked to her cousin about it because she was around when we hung out so she knew.  she even gave her the okay to stay at my place... so idk.  something is wring with that family.  i haven't been able to talk to anyone about it or her but i'm sure she's still doing the same thing just with someone else.  which is really sad for the husband.  but yeah i realize she's not the one for me.  lessons learned. 

 
Monday, June 13, 2016 11:45 AM
Guest

   Don't  stop that man needs to know. Try to get any info on where his family lives... expose her to his family.  Bitch is going to learn not to fuck with the American soldiers. Send wrath to that bitch. Update us when your able to.

 
Tuesday, June 14, 2016 7:30 AM
Guest

yeah the hard part is his last name is very common (hartman) so i even tried to search relatives and i was for sure this guy would have a facebook account being in the navy and all but i haven't found anything... 

 
Sunday, June 19, 2016 3:02 AM
Guest

go to a military base. I bet they would be able to find EXACTLY who you are looking for. They have his records on file. They may ask why, so make sure you have your answer. As long as you know the wifes name im sure they can look him up. Not sure if they will do it for a civilian but its worth a try.

 
Thursday, June 30, 2016 3:03 PM
Guest

still no luck... but i found out she's doing the same thing with other guys.  

 
Thursday, June 30, 2016 3:35 PM
Guest

try to contact the other guys that shes doing this with. Round all the guys up and then find out where her and her husband may be. Find a guy thats dealing with her now and set her up. But you have to contact all the guys shes been doing this to and with

 

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