Sunday, June 5, 2016 8:37 AM by Guest
I wasn't really sure which category to put this in... i've been seeing this girl for a few months and i guess it was getting pretty serious. she's 23, single mom with two kids. from the beginning i was never skeptical about what she told be regarding her past relationships, she mainly said that her having two kids was always a deal breaker with her when trying to date and thats why she liked me, i didn't see it a problem as long as she was willing to have another kid, of course i want a child of my own. we did normal things coulples do, go out to eat, drink, she even spent the night a few times saying that her mom would watch the kids. i was friends with her cousin on facebook and her family was going through a death of her grandfather recently so there was a lot of pics being posted and some with her in it. there was one pic, she was in and there was a white guy in a navy uniform standing right behind her and on her left hand was a wedding ring. now this was strange to me because she's asian and everyone else in the pic was asian. so why is this guy in the pic? and every other pic that she was in, he was right there next her. so i did some more snooping on instagram, i was looking up some of her friends and i found her on a friends list and her profile was private so i couldn't see any pictures but her last name on the profile matched the name on the guys uniform in the other pic. so i'm starting to put two and two together... so i start asking her about her kids father and she tells me that its been over a year since she spoke to him. so idk maybe this guy is the father or not? either way she's still lying to me and lying to him. she still tells me that she's been single besides dating me but that picture clearly had her with a wedding ring on and later on all those pics were removed from facebook. this is probably an easy question to answer... i should stop seeing her right? its just been so long since i found someone that i actually liked that it sucks to find something like this out. i really thought she could've been the one for me.