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Army wife

My husband cheated on me

Wednesday, December 23, 2015 12:47 PM by Who knows anymored Rating: +10|-26

Honestly, I don't have a clue where to begin. So I'm just going to wing it. So here goes nothing....I met my husband when I was 16 years old. We went to different high schools, but I was a social butterfly of sorts so a friend of a friend introduced us. It's a small town so the only thing to do was party.. I just went to be social I only got to have 1 night out to be a teen... I was a statistic.... teen mom at 15 but my mom watched her so I could still "enjoy being a teen" anyways off topic. Me and him hung out here and there I thought he was cute, but chaos in my life and his separated us. Until our twenties and life threw us back together...kind of. I lived 3 hours away, he found me on FB and sent me a friend request, we chatted every day for hours and hours it never got old or boring and that carried on for 3 months and it was time to go back to my roots anyways so I moved back near him. Anytime we were not together we talked on the phone or texted. He was the sweetest guy I think I've ever met. And not gonna lie time was very good to him bc he was also the hottest guy ever ... he lost the braces and baby fat face cleared up total knock out ... the cutest thing about him was he didn't know he was cute. Like not a douche was shy timid ... it was adorable ...I fell pretty hard... he decided to join the army and of course I backed him 100% I motivated him to go join ... I wanted him to succeed and be something not for me because it's what he wanted. Well January 5 came and off to bct he went for 10 weeks. Omg! I was devestated but I made a promise to write hI'm everyday and that's a promise I kept I had missed 3 days of writing due to the flu ... I was devoted .... well he was graduating so I had to be there mom was needing my car so the only car left was hers a standard ... I taught myself to drive it on this car ride 15 HR to his graduation on my birthday with no sleep made it 30 minutes to spare ...okay you get how devoted I was.... ya da got married  ya da head over heals . ... well I drove him to ait 5 hrs from there then turned around for a 23 HR car ride by myself. Oh it was the worst but I did it for him. 5 months I waited for him to come home from ait.... we were good up until the last month or so and in my gut I knew something was off i cried to my mom for hours .... ya well I wasn't wrong about that time he got attached to a pretty little slutload who had a bf herself ... he lied and lied and lied about this bitch I could have strangled myself bc I found it every time the texts phone calls ugh bitch I hope she rots .... she knew he was married knew me by name ... wtf ... well couple months went by and he quit no more bitch Barbee. ... but then it was online dating sites ... why the fuck am I not good enough now ..... couple months of that .... porn on the daily he makes me feel ugly I don't feel loved I wonder why I am still here and it's because I'm not sure why actually my heads pretty fucked up over it ... he broke me ... even I don't recognize me anymore ... it's pathetic really if I leave I'll be divorced before 25 he has a son me a daughter God I never wanted this 

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Wednesday, December 23, 2015 5:33 PM
Angel

Talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Ask him to  be honest does he want you. Give him dirty  nasty sex. Only if he does want you. Show him your a great mom a great wife and his secret whore. Sometimes guy just want nasty sex. He might be bored. And its not you we men just get to watch to much porn and reality is lot more boring. Your  married enjoy each other. When he and if he watches porn. Turn it off suck him dry. Ask him where do you want to come baby. You said the other girl was a slut load. That's the attachment that  that bitch she was his whore. There's nothing wrong with being your husbands slut. Do it now. 

 
Wednesday, December 23, 2015 5:42 PM
Guest

I have talked to him he says he doesn't want to lose me but never changes .... and I introduced him to hardcore sex I opened him to the hole "call me your dirty little slut, daddy" I know what turned him on but it's like it's never enough he has to beat off after a two hour fuck ... which reiterates the whole I'm not good enough thing 7

 
Thursday, December 24, 2015 4:26 AM
Angel

He clearly said he doesn't  want to loose you (that's love).  I have been married for 18 years and it wasn't  to 10 years later  my wife opened up to me. Her fantasies, insecurity, and so on. I learned  my sexy wife felt so ugly and usecure. I was shocked. Why? I asked and nothing she told me made sense. I decided to research some information on women psychology  and I learn you guys are some fucked up creatures. lol just joking not to much. I learned  that men are dumb. we do things without realizing it  has a serious  effect on women. You are enough it's us men who wants  more then we need. listen sweety he has an addiction. If he masterbates and watch porn everyday  he is an addict. If he beats off after sex he is an addict. Go find help or research what porn does to a man's  mental health. Research  porn induced erectile  disfunction. That should scare him off a little. If he doesn't stop this is what's going to happen. One day you guys are going to be fooling around and he won't  get a hard on.  That's  when the problem really hits both of you in a way that few people get through. He will distant  him self from you making you feel worst then what you do now. Again  it's  not you. If you are his bedroom whore then he has a problem. show him this forum. And this is my message to him. I don't  need to know the whole story to know what's  going  on. A real men puts aside all his needs to make the people around him feel safe and secure. Your wife is seeking help desperately when her white Knight  (YOU) should be the one she should be confiding in. You may feel betrayed  and hurt but you caused this. I ask no I beg you. leave the porn alone. You made your wife feel ugly, unwanted and lost. My parents ended there marriage because of this same issue. Don't make this mistake. Your wife is a precious  jem-stone if you don't want her someone will. Army wife it is not you. you are enough. forget what he does. his action does not reflect  who you are, what you are and even though it's  hard for you to see it you are enough. He would do the same thing even if your the same porn actress he was watching.

 

 

 

 

 
Friday, July 1, 2016 10:44 AM
Guest

I would definitely date you drop me a line.

 

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