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Aspiring Mistress

I was the other woman

Saturday, September 10, 2016 2:01 PM by The lady in question Rating: +0|-1

Actually, technically, I want to be the other woman. There's this guy and I want him. We knew each other years ago and I wanted him then, but things were always in the way. I just reconnected with him recently and he's married. They have a kid. Even though he's married, I know he wants me. No poker face, that boy. So I've been making excuses to drop by his work, be all friendly, nothing offensive. I love seeing him. He's gorgeous, and he's sweet, and kind. We were so into each other back in the day, and that fire isn't dead. I'm not sure what I want, long term- if I want to be a sexy dirty little secret or if I want him for my very own- but one way or another, I want that ass.

Anyway, so I drop by his work and I send friendly texts and I'm juuuust on the friendly side of flirting, and I'm watching him crumble. I don't know how his marriage is with his wife. I don't know if he loves her. To be honest, I don't really give a shit. That's their problem, you know? If he wants to turn me away for her, he's completely free to do so. (I'm pretty sure he's not going to.) Maybe it'll be a mistake for him, but it sure isn't for me. Besides which, I'm confident that I'm worth it. He said he was in love with me, once, years ago. I hope he still is.

I'm preparing. Maybe next weekend I'll make my move- the wife and kid are gonna be out of town (which he announced to me a bit ago, apropos of nothing). I'm gonna make sure he's stone cold sober. No excuses. Believe it or not, I have no interest in being the villain in this story.

I told a friend about this and she called me a homewrecker, said I should feel like shit, but I don't. I mean, I didn't make any vows. I'd be seducing this guy regardless. His commitments are his issue. Ya'll will probably call me all kinds of names, judging by the comments I've read on other posts, but whatever. I'm pretty sure I'm gonna get laid.

Thank you for voting.

Comments

Sunday, September 18, 2016 8:25 PM
Guest

This is sad to me. There are so many single available men out there. Why destroy something and be temptation for a man when it can only lead to mistakes being made. Even if you hook up with him and he leaves her you will never trust him later on if you two end up together because in the back of your mind you will start to worry if he will do the same to you later on...trust me. It's not worth it. Karma is very real and when you do things like this, you are just setting yourself up for the same thing to happen to you. Can you image if you were married to someone and thought this was the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, and found out a woman was chasing him and plotting to destroy your relationship for her own benefit? If you don't care now trust me you will when it happens, and with that attitude I can almost assure you it will happen to you at some point. Like I said Karma is very real and what goes around comes around. If you want a relationship that lasts and someone that actually cares about you go find someone single and available. There are tons of cute single men out there to choose from. And if you are that horny...go buy a vibrator for yourself and put on a movie. You will be ok and no one will have hurt feelings over it. 

 
Monday, September 19, 2016 3:01 PM
Guest

As someone whose been in a similar situation all I gots to say is you do you girl. You didn't make a vow, you didn't make a commitment. It's his responsibility to say "no thanks" and walk away. It's not like you're forcing him to do anything he doesn't want to do.

 

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