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I cheated on my husband

Monday, May 16, 2016 8:50 AM by Guest Rating: +23|-14

I cheated on my husband...I have always said husband legally he is not. I am riddled with guilt. He knows what has happened he found the text. But he tells me he still loves me and it's been a week since he found out the whole truth and it's been a trying time but he asked me to leave for a bit but keeps going back and forth on giving me a second chance. I broke his heart and I want to mend it but he keeps going back to this. I don't know what to do...I don't want to give up yet let go. I need him next to me

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Monday, May 16, 2016 9:49 AM
Guest

Obviously you needed the other man next to you

 
Monday, May 16, 2016 10:01 AM
Guest

Sometimes in life we dont get that second chance. Next time keep your legs closed.

 
Monday, May 16, 2016 10:27 AM
Guest

  Obviously  the guy above me is a jack ass. First you must find out why you did what you did. Be honest  or it just not worth it. Any excuse  won't  matter, what you did is wrong and can't  be justified  but can be understandable. 

Did you feel alone, was you not getting any at home, was you drunk, did you take a girlfriends advice  did you stop caring, did you think you wasn't  going to get caught  or was it just a moment of lust that made you slutty  at that moment. This is an issue you must face and understand or you will repeat the incident. Noticed how you called him your husband. You must be honest  with  him with everything without giving details what you did sexually. When a woman cheats, the man feels like hes not a man. And think about everything  possible  to take that feeling away. It's why the name calling  is always  a man's reaction. If he hasn't  called you a whore you got bigger problems. You must wait to he is ready to talk and when he does  be open, understanding  and truthful. What is it that you want that he couldn't  give you. 

Sometime women are so afraid  to open up to a man that they keep thing bottle  up to the point where it Hurts  the family.  Time to face your demons and be real if you want to save this relationship.

 

 
Monday, May 16, 2016 12:06 PM
Lillian

  Girl. Why? You have to figure it out quickly.   I cheated on my husband  because I was bored. It was my first and last mistake. 😢I still cry every time he picks up his daughter.  I miss his touch, smell, hugs and how he treated me. He worked alot and I got bored. I met a guy at a grocery  store and we had sex. 2 months went by and noticed  the sex wasn't  even good it was just the thrill of something  new. I stopped and guilt killed me. I kept silent and said it will never happen again. I felt so dirty and cried  when I slept with my husband. He found out 3 months after  it ended through a neighbor. He'll broke loose. He left me with an empty house that once had a good family. I fucked up and I can't take it back. It wasn't  worth it. I'm always depressed  knowing he's pleasuring  that other girl how he did me. I still try to win him back but he won't forgive. I Don't  blame him.  I never thought  I would of gotten on my knees and begged  anyone. But I  do it constantly. If you have a chance to  win him back do it and be honest. I wasn't.  I even told himI would do anything  sexually if he took me back. How low have I fallen. I can't even forgive my self.

 
Monday, May 16, 2016 7:33 PM
Guest

Need more info here.  What do you mean by "husband he is legally not"  and "he keeps going back to this".  These statements are confusing - is there a child involved, illegal activities, or videos that could do harm in the future.  Length of the affair may also be a problem. Can not really give advice without knowing what has happened.

 
Tuesday, May 17, 2016 6:16 AM
Guest

For all the Ho's above trying to justify reasons for cheating SUCK A DICK BITCHES. Once a ho always a ho!

 
Tuesday, May 17, 2016 6:20 AM
Guest

I think she's trying to say that in her mind and in her heart he's her husband. They can't move forward because he keeps going back to the fact that she cheated. He can't get it off his mind. To the person above me your right. You can't turn a ho into a housewife but you can turn a housewife into a ho and once a ho ALWAYS a ho 

 
Tuesday, May 17, 2016 9:03 PM
Guest

Agreed two above. Once a ho always... Just know whoever he gets will be way hotter than you!

 
Wednesday, May 18, 2016 8:14 AM
Guest

I am in the same situation right now...I can't believe I cheated and I'm not going to do it again. But the guilt that I hurt him ...is such an awful feeling ...I wish that I never did it but I did and I can't take it back. My dear I wish you nothing but the best and I know we all make mistakes...we can only hope for the best.

 
Wednesday, May 18, 2016 7:56 PM
Guest

Legally not your husband means he's a long-term boyfriend.  And you already gave up on him and let go.  The ball's in his court now.

 
Thursday, May 19, 2016 5:33 AM
Lanah102

Once you intentionally and deliberately chose to screw around you gave up all rights on your Husband. I'm stunned he is still considering you.

 

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