Friday, June 03, 2016 9:46 AM by Peaches
i've been with my husband for 11 years...married for 4 with two kids. We both work for the same company and we're really well known with the company. My husband is in management and a few weeks ago discovered text messages from a certain number on different dates. I wasn't able to see what he texted since his phone was locked and he refused to unlock it after asking him to see the texts. He basically said it was nothing, just texting only. I wasn't satisfied with that answer and kept digging and digging. He knows me well enough that I would eventually find out who it was. It's an associate of his and the thought that he could jeopardize his career is sickening. I've been nothing but a loyal wife and mother. At any point in time I would do anything for him. Hungry? I would get him food. Needed something at the store? No problem. My husband ended up going on a business trip for a few days and I saw on our phone bill that he called her the day before he left and spoke with her for almost 30 mins. I even called him during that time but he didn't answer my call. I haven't caught him having sex with this girl or anything but he's definitely contacting her. I'm stuck at what I should do. Even a few weeks back, the kids and I were gone for the weekend and I feel that he met up with her while we were gone. He says no that he hasn't had sex with her, or hung out with her or sees anything going on with her. He did admit that she was attractive which I don't think she is. I don't believe what he says...I can't trust him. What am I supposed to do?