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Bf cheated on me with ex, now acts like he wants me

My boyfriend cheated on me

Monday, June 13, 2016 3:36 PM by Lyla Rating: +3|-2

was with a relationship for 2 years. A few months ago i found out he had been two- timing me with his ex (i was apparently the side chick). I broke up. He pursued her like a crazed stalker for a month but she left him for good. Then he came for me. Being the emotional fool that i am i took him back. We were okay for a few days - then i find out he had been contacting her again.It shattered me. I left him again and again he chose to pursue her. After a while when it became clear she wasn't coming back, he came for me again and AGAIN i took him back. But this time i had huge doubts and grudges against him. I started fighting daily. I also found out he still had her nude pics on his phone. When confronted he said he "didnt know about them".

He makes me feel like I'm the one who provokes him into contacting her. He always blames my temper for it. I end up feeling terribly depressed. I end up crying everyday

I feel so worthless. He was engaged to her, used to buy her gifts constantly, write her long love letters - he does nothing like that for me. He treats me like someone he wants to string along.

Im in mixed emotions over this. One part of me wants to forgive him and better myself, the other part wants to dump him. He is also trying vehemently to move to another country for work, but keeps on telling me that he won't go. His words and actions often don't match. He hits and punches me sometimes but I feel like I provoke him to do that. Some days he acts really loving and the other days he says I make his life hell (this is because I complain when he doesn't call me or talk to me lovingly).

Can someone PLEASE tell me what to do? I feel like I will go mad due to my insecurity and fickleness of mind. Help!

Thank you for voting.

Comments

Wednesday, June 15, 2016 12:42 AM
Guest

That's called abuse. Most people like to avoid that.

 
Wednesday, June 15, 2016 2:08 AM
Julian

   Baby girl why are you  still with him?  He is manipulating you and making you think you  can't live with out him.  He is with you because  he knows he can control you. No one has the right to put thier hands on you.  Your the back up  incase he can't  get laid. Stop the relationship asap before he kills you. He is an evil narcissister asshole. You are worth way more then that.

 
Wednesday, June 15, 2016 2:14 AM
Guest

  Get away from that man. A man who truly loves you would never put thier hands on you... Well  in bed my girl wants me to slap her and call hurt a whore but that's different  she asking me to do it. Don't judge. 

 
Wednesday, June 15, 2016 2:15 AM
Guest

  Get away from that man. A man who truly loves you would never put thier hands on you... Well  in bed my girl wants me to slap her and call hurt a whore but that's different  she asking me to do it. Don't judge. 

 
Wednesday, June 15, 2016 7:41 AM
Guest

you will never be able to forgive hom because you are right that he is stringing you along. He just wants easy access to a vagina while he finds someone else and that is what you are to him. 

 
Wednesday, September 14, 2016 4:44 AM
TheBestAdvice

Have you been able to get away from him?

 

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