Friday, July 22, 2016 7:48 AM by John
My wife is 51 and I am 57 and we have been married for 28 years. Two weeks ago a coworker of my wife stopped by my house to talk to me. She said she hated to be the one to bring bad news, but she was there to tell me my wife was having an affair. She told me it was her 24 year old son she was sleeping with, and she showed me a couple of very graphic photos and one video she had pulled of her sons phone. The evidence was overwhelming. She told me she had asked my wife to leave her son alone, but when she wouldn't she decided to tell me. I was absolutely gut punched. I had no idea, or inclination that this was going on. I thanked her coworker and had her send the evidence to my phone. It was a couple of hours until my wife came home, and believe me I had so many emotions and thoughts going through my mind. I felt betrayal, jealously, embarrassment, rage, hurt and empty. When she walked through the door I realized her coworker had already told her that she had informed me of her affair. My wife who I loved and trusted and thought was my best friend just came in the house and told me she was sorry that I found out the way I did, but she was in love with this young man and that he was waiting out in the car and she was there to pick up a few things . I followed her upstairs as she packed and tried to talk to her, but all she said was she didn't mean for it to happen, but it did, she tried to end it but she couldn't and to please try to understand. She left with him that night and came back to get the rest of her stuff while I was at work. I heard she moved into his apartment. I feel like I am living in a bad dream I can't wake from.