He cheated om pur first year anniversary. With a guy! It wasnt the first time it has happened twive before. The worst thing is he didn't tell me.  He lied about it and gave me variations of the same story till the truth came out. Initially he said he had been sexually asualted and i made him report it. I sat there on the station with jim as he reported the alleged assualt. I slept witj him before we went to try to distracted him so he wouldn't be upset. I didmt know. He could of given me an sti.. i domt know what to do. This happened a year ago and some nights i find myself crying if i read over the messages. He has changed since then and is so much more caring almost perfect but the trust is gone and I still hurt..