I have cancer. I was scheduled to get a kidney removed this past Thursday, when the weekend before I was in bed and got a message from my friend, telling me that my boyfriend was at a bar making out with a girl. My boyfriend denied it, and completely made me believe that maybe my friend had mistaken someone else for my boyfriend. I barely talked to to him for the week, but he still made a point of telling me he loves me and he always will love me. I had my surgery Thursday. My boyfriend was supposed to visit me in the hospital on Sunday. We had plans for him to come. I hadn't heard from him for a few hours and he wasn't returning my calls or my texts. My friend called me saying that our friend had texted her telling her not To say anything but that she had just slept with MY boyfriend... While I was in the hospital... When he was supposed to be visiting me in the hospital. He obviously has denied that this has happened, but what I've learned about men is that they believe their own lies and hold on to them forever. Horrible situation, even more horrible timing.