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Caught her out

My wife cheated on me

Thursday, June 16, 2016 3:44 AM by Guest Rating: +17|-20

My wife of 7ys I found out she has been cheating on the regular. Recently she had a work social and I decided not to attend I also did I refused to collect her after 1pm so she decided to stay in the city with her mum. So I drop her off and we catch up the next day. Later that evening as we catch up on the events from her social I ask her what time did she get to her mums? She stuttered and said oh um I didn't stay there I stayed at Jeffs. Oh ok why? Well he stayed with his girlfriend  so I stayed there. Ok not happy  sounds suspect.  I then knew something wasn't right. So I addressed it with her we argue she lies like anything about events. We separate from each other for a few days and she then contacts me to meet. We meet and she tells me she slept with an other female a few weeks ago but nothing happened with anybody on the social night. As we spoke more I ask of different events that I recall didn't sit right with me over the years and basically get it out from her she had been having sex with a number of guys one off or a few times. We are still together but I simply don't trust her. WSU? 

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Friday, June 17, 2016 4:07 AM

When a woman fucks other men and women then she is not your woman. She is anybody's. Dump the whore. 

Friday, June 17, 2016 3:07 PM

Man get out. The doubt will eat you alive. She's done it time and time again she WILL do it again. There are alot of better women out there. Go find one. I would 4 at her be alone than stay with somone who could betray me so many times. If you can't leave her then try to get her to tell you the REASONS not her excuses the REAL reasons. Women like to tell white lies to save us men's feeling but they don't realize over time these well meaning lies put an invisible distance between them and thier lovers. So when they finally become unhappy they end up blaming the guy when all she had to do was be honest from the get go. Most women also like to have thier cake and eat it to. They want crazy raunchy sex and they also want a steadfast caring husband. They are willing to lie to the man because they seperate thier love for him and thier betrayal of him. Some women just get off on betraying the people they love too. Not to say men can't do the same and they do. But women are much better at hiding it and acting like thier is nothing wrong.

Friday, June 17, 2016 11:15 PM

Ben your a wise man indeed.. author.. take his advice.. i'm going through the same thing with a 30 year marriage.. i'm trying to get the REAL reasons.. i get i was drunk or high or young and stupid.. that may explain(in some part) the act but never the treatment of you(me)... it is 100% wrong for any spouse to NOT hold their mate #1 in EVERYTHING.. no-one performs a task/act without trying to gain or achieve something.. and repitition of said act means that prior they were at least partially successful in aquiring their "goal".. if you can truly find out what she was trying to gain, you can find out whether this is something you can address and correct. good luck my friend.. trust is hard to rebuild.. and your completely in your right to need her to build that back.. dont let her have the power to decide "how much" is enough in what she needs to do to ease what her choices have created... thats your choice..just "ask" for what you truly need to heal and no more.. seek justice not vengeance. and always remember(this is for when the reasons start to come)you may be responsible(in varying degree) to the situation that created that "need" but WE'RE NEVER responsible for the choices they make.. dont carry that guilt.

Monday, June 20, 2016 3:02 AM

People obsessed with sex and cheating are emotionally damaged people. Sadly, only they can change their destiny and few will ever depart from their path to destruction. Thank God you did not mention having any kids! I hope that is the case. I agree with the above, get a divorce, quickly. Remember the following: She is a slut. Sluts make terrible wives. She can't help the fact that she is a slut. Don't waste your time being angry at her. If she doesn't fight the divorce and doesn't try to steal your money in the divorce part company without a fuss and NEVER, NEVER talk to her again. You have an emotional bond with a slut - that is very dangerous for you. If you allow her to hold on to you, she will drag you to Hell with her. She is doomed, she is not coming back, do not allow her to destroy your life. Find a decent woman, get married, have kids, be faithful, grow old together, have grandkids, die happy - that is what life is all about, there is nothing more than that to life. 

Tuesday, June 21, 2016 4:05 AM

Get friendly with a real attractive woman who is allot more than her in many ways get her jealous get her realising how you can pull in the babe's. build your body which will build your confidence. Get another woman to suck your cock you will appreciate it. Record her in shower having sex etc get a library etc. 

Monday, June 27, 2016 12:18 AM

I can't believe your still with her. Is it that you like the humilation or is it a fantasy of having other men have sex with your wife that you like?

Wednesday, June 29, 2016 6:53 PM

Better to have your piece of mind than a piece of ass

Sunday, July 31, 2016 3:38 PM

Whether you stay or go is totally up to you dude.  But if you're going to stay with this woman, I say go out an get yours.

Tuesday, December 20, 2016 11:38 AM

Hi. Wow great feedback. Well I should give you updates.  We have started to sort a lot out. I have gone to gym done cross fit playing rugby and just decided to come out of my shell. She has put on weight grumpy and doesn't really have much friends. Sex is not very regular. I need it abit more now that my activities have increased.  She only gives me oral when she is horny. She always orgasms at least once if not more during sex. She has told me that nobody has ever been able to get her orgasm before. But.... I very been hit on a number of times by other women yet still keep faithful.  Someone mentioned is it possible that I enjoy the thought of her with someone else. I asked myself this and yes I do. But.... I want to explore other women also just not behind her back. I've looked at playboy tv swingers. I want to experience this. 


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