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Caught my wife

My wife cheated on me

Monday, June 13, 2016 9:20 PM by Guest Rating: +20|-18

  I work out of town 2 weeks out of the month and I have been married 15 years : I get home from work one night my wife is sleeping with my son. The next day she sets me down and tells me she has been unhappy for years at least 4 years and wants a divorce and if we don't get it soon we will hate each other , she wants a nice divorce and us to be best friends.my initial thought was to seek counseling from our pastor ; 3 days later we set down with my pastor and he says he knew she had been texting a man and I imediatly got that familiar sick feeling in my stomach even though she denied it and sure enough I checked the phone records and she is having an affair and I didn't say anything hired a pi got proof (took 4 weeks and cost a lot)(knowing they were together in my home while I was working and the kids were in school was the hardest thing I have ever dealt with )and filed for divorce. I hate my wife with all my heart and I don't want to but i do and I know this will pass ; her and her new boyfriend (drug head) (whom I have known since childhood) and hate also. She will probably have joint custody of our 2 children 14 and 11 and that's why I hate her so much. and now she is telling everyone I beat her up for years and all kinds of other lies to deflect from her being a pos. She still goes to the same church I do and I feel uncomfortable around her and I will never speak to her again but I feel like moving away and starting over and of course I don't want to remarry as I have been cheated on before in marriage and been faithful ,it sucks period marriage and women. Also can't move away because I want to be with my children .

Tags: Custody; Divorce; Kids;

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Tuesday, June 14, 2016 6:44 PM
Guest

if you play this right you can get full custody. This happened to my uncle and he got full custody of his son

 
Wednesday, June 15, 2016 5:50 AM
Guest

yes that's considered adultery and you can get full custody of your children 

 
Wednesday, June 15, 2016 7:24 AM
Guest

The BF I am currently dating goes through the exact thing you went through but after he met me, he is happy. Trust me, once you etc someone who really love you, you won't even remember the pain and thankfully hates he did what she has done to you.

 
Thursday, June 16, 2016 4:23 PM
Guest

Your wife is a selfish bitch. She has proven she will lie in an attempt to destroy the man that is her children's father. Stop at nothing to get full custody of your children. She and her boyfriend will destroy your children. 

 
Thursday, June 16, 2016 10:15 PM
Guest

I agree with the others.  Drug head probably has a criminal record.  Use it.

 
Tuesday, June 21, 2016 6:32 AM
Same Boat
You are sad now, but imagine how sad you would be if she got pregnant by this asshat. Also imagine if this druggie gave her HIV! I get that you r heart is broken, but ignore her threats, push for custody. As Billy Joel said "all she can do is throw shadows at you"
 

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