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Cheated - 2 weeks to wedding

My boyfriend cheated on me

Sunday, July 10, 2016 11:00 AM by Guest Rating: +24|-9

So 1 weekto my wedding and my life has fallen to pieces. My bf confessed to cheating on my when we first got together. We have a child together and been together 5years. Our wedding is all paid for, and I don't know if I can marry him. I just don't know what to do. He told me last week and I have none I can talk to, I can't deal with people judging me for being cheated on. i was so happy until last week, I've not eaten and simply can't cope, i just walk round smiling and slip off to cry. It's so hard as everyone is messaging me all excited about the wedding. It's in Cyprus and we have 70 guests flying out. I love him but feel so sick by it, how he has kept it a secret so many years. I cancelled my wedding 2 weeks before to my ex 8 years ago, I just don't know what to do. I'm dying inside 

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Monday, July 11, 2016 3:49 AM
Kristen

 Devastated but I finally started eating and visiting friends, I promise you it will get better but please feel free to get in touch with me 603-832-4738 I would love to talk with you I'm finally starting to feel little bit better but I still cry and I'm still sad. What he did in the way he lied was so bad he strung me along and said we could try counseling but honestly there's no way he could get up there and give a toast is beautiful bride knowing what he had done. We had the most amazing wedding plan to be at  Hello there! I want you know you to know right away you can talk to me. I just went to the same exact thing only we have not been together for five years rather two and we do not have a child. I just found out three weeks ago that he's been cheating on me for five months of the two years. I remember last year an incident with him texting someone to. But look past it I had to cancel my entire wedding two weeks ago and it took a lot of guts but there was no way I could marry him. I'm still devastated but I finally started eating and visiting friends, I promise you it will get better but please feel free to get in touch with me 603-832-4738 I would love to talk with you I'm finally starting to feel little bit better but I still cry and I'm still sad. What he did in the way he lied was so bad he strung me along and said we could try counseling but honestly there's no way he could get up there and give a toast is beautiful bride knowing what he had done. We had The most amazing wedding planned and I had the most beautiful dress. It broke my heart to cancel everything but I'm here for you please contact me anytime

 
Monday, July 11, 2016 7:26 AM
Guest

I was in a very similar situation, but I was young and so much lost to my own fears. I was affraid of what people would say, affraid of the shame, affraid of standing tall...

I was a mess for a month before the M. We finally got married and it was a hell to pretend and fake in front of my friends and family.

In one week from our W – when I took time for myself and leaved to a different country for work, – I've realised how much did I loose myself to my fears. In one week from our W day, I filed for divorse.

Now I'm very happy about every aspect of my life, and I can't overstate how grateful I am to myself for being strong and decisive in cutting off this unhealthy and painful bond between me and my ex-partner.

Please search for "surviving infidelity". You will find a forum that will help you to heal.

 
Thursday, July 14, 2016 6:54 AM
Guest

The best thing in life is open relation sweetly .sex is something you should practice with different people and try to do it with different man . It is nice to tell him and he will be horny to know you are fucking around. All men inside they feel happy if wife is slut

 
Thursday, July 14, 2016 12:11 PM
Guest

Start cheating on Him. 

 
Friday, July 15, 2016 6:41 PM
Jessica Williams

If you suspect your Partner is cheating or doing something you aren't in support of, there's a way you can now know what he's up to, an old friend gave me the contact of a man that helped me nab my cheating ex-boyfriend and saved me from a terrible relationship, his services are straight and forward and trust me, he gets things done; elkhanov9@ gmail. com. Thank me later.

 

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