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Cheated in Barcelona

I cheated on my boyfriend

Sunday, July 31, 2016 4:54 PM by Guestby Rating: +2|-5

I have been with my BF for about a year and a half. This summer I went on a trip with my 2 best girlfriends to Europe. One night at a club in Barcelona I danced with another boy and he kissed me. I walked away and have felt so much guilt about it since then. I think about it all the time, my friends didn't see the kiss happen and were confused as to why I was crying the rest of the trip about dancing with another guy. I want to tell my boyfriend but he's told me in the past that if i kissed someone else he would breakup with me. I am and throughout the relationship have been madly in love with my boyfriend. We started dating Junior year of high school and are now heading to college. He is my first love and I love him with all of my being. It's been about a month since the kiss. Should I tell him?

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Tuesday, August 2, 2016 5:10 PM
Guest

Better if you tell him the truth then harbor the guilt

 
Tuesday, August 2, 2016 6:52 PM
Guest

It's one thing if you were dancing and the guy just slammed you on the lips.  If you kissed back or provoked it, then yeah it's your fault.  Otherwise, I say this... If you were just standing in the store looking at clothes and someone walked by and smacked your ass or squeezed it while he was there, or even not there, isn't that the same thing as saying "if a guy every kisses you I'm done."?  You only have so much control over what other people do.  Being in a relationship doesn't mean you need to be a hermit crab without him.  Your other option was sit in the corner and not dance or have fun.  You were dancing and a guy decided to kiss ya.  You being torn up the rest of the trip says enough to me.  It wasn't you, it was the guy you danced with.  If he doesn't understand that, you two are gonna have a tough time with the hard parts of living together after marriage.

 
Thursday, August 4, 2016 1:19 PM
ALF

Why are you always thinking about a kiss with some random dude in Spain?

 
Wednesday, September 28, 2016 6:31 AM
TheBestAdvice

I woukdn't give it any more thought. You should have done it. You did it. You've learned your lesson and won't do it again. If you spend time feeling guilty, you actually end up taking more from your boyfriend than what has alralready happened. Don't tell him. If you feel that you shouldn't have done it then make it up to your boyfriend by treating him even more specially. 

 
Wednesday, September 28, 2016 6:32 AM
TheBestAdvice

In the post above I intend to say you shouldn't have done it. 

 

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