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I cheated on my boyfriend

Tuesday, April 5, 2016 5:04 PM by Guest Rating: +12|-11

i am so in love with my boyfriend, we are in a long distance relationship and see each other every few months and i know we are meant to be together forever. i found it hard to start with not being with him after living with him for a few months, so a couple of months ago i cheated on him and he will never find out unless i tell him. i know it will completely ruin him if i tell him and maybe i should tell him so he at least has the choice whether to be with me or not? another part of me thinks that the only thing that comes from telling him is making my own guilt go away which it won't. i know i'm a horrible person and i never thought i had it in me to do this.

i honestly feel horrible and will never do it again. 

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Thursday, April 7, 2016 2:35 AM
Guest

My opinion, you are right to feel bad, but I believe cheating on a boyfriend or girlfriend is not on the same level as cheating on a spouse. A marriage commitment is a bond unbreakable, unto death. What you need to do is, if you are sincere in your remorse, take it as a valuable lesson and vow to never be that person if and when you enter into the sacred vow of marriage. If you can do this then yes, you are a good choice for a man to be his wife. I would council you to not say anything about it to anyone, settle it in your own heart and move on the better person. Just don't ever do it again no matter what. Cheating never ends well. Good luck.

 
Thursday, April 7, 2016 3:39 PM
Guest

thank you.. i have matured and changed a lot in my head since i did it and will never do it again to him, he is such a great person. every day i am trying to treat him the way he deserves to be treated because i do truly love him so much and believe we are meant to be, despite my horrible mistake and bad judgment. i haven't told anyone and i am never going to.

 
Friday, April 8, 2016 1:14 AM
Guest

Fuck you... Cheating is cheating, spouse or boyfriend is the same shit.  Fucking scumbag.  Go play in traffic you slut.

 
Saturday, April 9, 2016 10:49 PM
Guest

who is cheat bf she became a real slut bitch ,, like u :)

 

 
Monday, April 11, 2016 12:08 PM
Guest

don't tell him. continue cheating

 
Tuesday, April 12, 2016 2:59 PM
Guest

guys im in a long distance relationship i wouldn't expect any of u to understand what it is like for the first few months apart with no physical contact. i fucked up really bad, i know that and i'm so sorry for it everyday. i don't think i should be wished death on for one horrible mistake i have made and vow never to do again. 

are u all that bitter that u come online to say nasty shit to other people because of your own miserable lives? i'm trying my best to make peace with my mistake inside. i have been to therapy and i am a changed person. 

 
Wednesday, April 13, 2016 7:10 AM
Guest

I'm in a long distances relationship and have been for the last 3 years .. I know what it's like being apart for months on end .. And crying at night just wanting affection and love . But I would NEVER cheat on him (I'm a girl btw) he means the world to me . Even if I felt like there were any problems , I'd talk to him and sort it out. If I decided that I wanted to do something with some one else . I'd at least have th decency to end my relationship .. I'm mean come on wouldn't you rather be broken up with instead of going through the heart break of being cheated on , and then breaking up anyway? Have the decency and heart for someone that loves/loved you.. Just saying because just the thought of this shit happening to me would break me . Especially if you kept it from me. And still stayed with me . That's just EW! 

 
Friday, April 15, 2016 10:19 PM
Guest

You are in ldr with no physical contact for months. So whats going to happen if you have no physical contact for few month again, cheat again? 

 
Friday, April 15, 2016 10:36 PM
Guest

What you need to do is get friends with benefits;)

 
Saturday, April 16, 2016 1:20 AM
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i have been to therapy and i am a changed person

a leopard doesn't change its spots

 
Saturday, April 16, 2016 1:22 AM
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a leopard doesn't change its spots

 
Monday, May 16, 2016 2:25 PM
Guest

 not only are you a stupid fucking slut your a liar and a horrible person, i despise cheaters more than anything. if you cheat on someone YOU DO NOT LOVE THEM, if you cared about someone at ALL there's no fucking way you'd ever cheat on them. your just a fucking retarded piece of shit

 
Monday, May 16, 2016 2:40 PM
Guest

The number 1 virtue in a women is her patients. A hard working man deserve a patient woman. A patient woman deserves a hard working man

 
Wednesday, July 6, 2016 11:20 AM
Guest

Don't be so hard on yourself and don't listen to these unrealister losers. Cheating happens. It doesn't always mean you don't love your partner. Especially if you are young, not married, and in a LDR. It's up to you to decided how to handle it. You can tell him and deal with all the confusion and pain you may have caused him. Or consider it out of your system and forget about it. You said it yourself, the act wasn't even worth all this trouble. What he doesn't know won't hurt him. Move on.

 
Monday, August 22, 2016 1:36 PM
Guest

nice but hang in there i am 16 and my girl friend cheated on me for 2 and half years i was living a lie  she left me saying i am ugly useless peice of shit and she told me stay away from me and her pepole because i look shit i never goner love again i wont fall in love again life isnt sweet has you think lets have hope friends

 
Wednesday, September 14, 2016 8:04 AM
Guest

The cheater will always justify what they did and chalk it up to a 'mistake' or 'loneliness' or alcohol.   The problem with cheating is that, although it is entirely the cheaters fault.....the effect it has on the person being cheated on is devastating.  In one instant, not only do they lose their best friend, partner and confidant, but they feel like a fool and have to deal with a betrayal from someone they trusted.  Unless they are very strong they can lose their confidence and their ability to trust others.  In fact, it will probably affect them for the rest of their lives and have a profound impact on their future relationships.  You...as the cheater...causes this person an immesurable amount of pain that cannot be medicated away.

I know this because I am currently dealing with the aftermath of being in a relationship with a cheater....I've been in therapy for about 6 months and it is having a very negative effect on my ability to trust people and have a relationship.

This is the legacy of a cheater...leaving nothing but a trail of pain ......

 

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