cheated on my boyfriend, don't wanna live with the regret

I cheated on my boyfriend

Thursday, April 28, 2016 5:04 AM by Guest Rating: +5|-2

I met my boyfriend in the 7th grade, he was in 8th. we didn't start dating till September 27,2014. everything was great, we were happy, we were perfect. we're both in highschool. I'm a freshman and hes a sophomore. please no comments on how I'm "too young". I'm just looking for advice. after we made it to a year, things started getting bad. mostly because I was listening to my friend and she was saying he's not a good boyfriend. its pretty easy to get in my head. and that's exactly what happened.she convinced me to break up with him. I made it seem like I was happy but I was dying inside. he was perfect and I let him go. my friend told me to talk to a few guys after we broke up, and I never actually wanted them. I liked the attention but its not who I wanted it from. after a while, I wanted to fix things with my boyfriend so we did. it was rough trying to fix things, I was still talking to two of the guys and for some reason I couldn't let them go. my friend told me to send them nudes to keep them around. I objected at first but somehow it happened. I didn't want to do it but I believed her when she said it'll keep them around. the two guys were juniors, so they were 16. me and my boyfriend are great now, but I can't live with the guilt. I wanna tell him but I'm afraid he'll leave me. I broke his trust. he means the world to me, he stopped me from doing things like cutting. he's the only person I really have, the only person I want. he's everything. I don't want to lose him. please help.

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Thursday, April 28, 2016 2:43 PM

Guest

God your easy to manipulate. I'm 40 years old man so I got plenty of experience so listen. Young women your age are dumb. Your proof. Now I'm not trying to be mean so just listen. Your girlfriend needs to be dropped from your life asap. She is not your friend and never was. I'm not sure what her intentions are but you will find out the hard way. Tell hour boyfriend now( about everything and be truthful ) before those photos get circulated. Let those boys know that if they don't erase it, it will be considered child porn. It's a felony. Your mistake can cause you problems in school. My only concern is now is that your talking about cutting yourself. If these pictures get out what is going to happen to you psychologically. I need you to know that what ever happens taking your life away is not an option, in fact it's a selfish act. No matter what they say to you, your not those things. Just a girl who made a mistake that many other girls do. If your boyfriend gets mad then he has a right to be but at least he heard the truth from you. Your you g and have your whole life. Live and learn. PLEASE IF THERE ARE ANY RESPONSIBLY WOMEN READING THIS PLEASE RESPOND. AND HELP THIS YOUNG LADY. I DONT WANT TO SEE ANOTHER TRAGIC YOUTUBE VIDEO.

Thursday, April 28, 2016 2:43 PM

Guest

You have to get rid of your friend. Shes bad news even for your future. I know you said don't say your to young but I have to. The first thing you have to learn is what a friend is. Your friend will ruin your life and your future relationships. Cut her off. DO NOT TAKE ADVICE FROM YOUR FRIEND

Thursday, April 28, 2016 6:02 PM

Guest

Yup, I agree with the above. Teenage girls are some of the most evil people on the planet. Mostly towards each other. She wanted to tear you down because you had a boyfriend. She is a sick, envious bitch. Get away from her and stay away - she will never change, she will just learn how to cover it up better in the future. Women are their own worst enemies.

Thursday, September 1, 2016 7:27 AM

Guest

I know that you posted this a while back so you have probably already done what you were going to do. In this situation I recommend that you stop listening to your friend and that you not tell your boyfriend the truth. Stay away from tempting situations and get some of the drama out of your life. People who cut often crave drama.

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