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Tuesday, August 2, 2016 8:53 PM by Guest Rating: +1|-2

Just wondering, has anybody every cheated on somebody very dear to them just to see what it felt like? Obviously it is selfish and wrong etc etc etc (if you are one of those hater, troll commenters then buzz off), but cheating can also be described as tempting, thrilling, enticing etc. Has anybody ever cheated and got away with it? Has anyone ever wanted to cheat and felt horrible afterwards? Has anyone every cheated and never regretted it? If so, why? I want to hear all points of views, stories, etc. from the cheaters themselves and why. 

Discretion: I do not support cheaters. I've been cheated on myself; however, currently the tables have turned in my position and I find myself tempted to explore with other people secretly and I can't seem to understand why. 

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Thursday, August 4, 2016 7:57 PM
Regrets

  I can assure if you have a conscous cheating will eat you alive. ONLY THOSE who have no regrets of doing such thing do not or did not love the one they are with. Exciting, yes. Like  all things new it will excite you and bring you up to heights  never reached  before. I am a man and I have made mistakes  out of boredom. Like all new things it will get old quickly. By this time you will  start to miss what you had ( real love  ) and lost for a moment  of pleasure. I CHEATED on  my wife and caused so much  pain and distrust  to someone I loved. Why  because I was horny. My wife didn't  lack anything  and gave me more then I needed. She was and is perfect.  Just to show you how great she is she forgave  me. 5 years later I think back on what I did and how much  pain I caused her. I made her feel like she wasn't  enough. I made her feel ugly, worthless and hopeless. I still haven't  forgiven myself and I'm not an emotional  person. Women ( like you) are much more emotional  than man and if it's hard for me imagine yourself  with these feelings.  If there is  something  lacking In   your relationship  communicate with him asap.  BE HONEST  no matter if you  think it will hurt him. I  have been with women who had a man and I refer  to them as whores. Double  standard  I know and what's even worst I was doing the same thing they were doing. I TELL you this because a man will not respect you if he knows you have a boyfriend.  In other words don't  plan a long term  relationship and if you do he will not trust you because of what you did to your ex. I know other people who cheated and I'm the  only  one  who was lucky. They end up in divorce, lost of jobs, std  and/or all of the above.  Trust me it's not wot it. KARMA WILL KICK YOUR ASS.

 
Friday, August 5, 2016 6:50 AM
Guest

The thrill is not worth the guilt you have to live with. Cheating was the biggest mistake I ever made. Life will never be the same after you cheat. It ruins everything and hurts everybody it touches! 

 
Friday, August 5, 2016 7:42 PM
Guest

I am married, and have been for 2 years. I have cheated on my husband with 3 different men. He does not know. I have no regret or feeling of guilt. The current man I am sleeping with provides me with my sexual needs. I love my husand more than anyone, but I do not feel that it affects our relationship in a negative way. Some people need a person to love and another person just to have fun with. There is nothing wrong with that. Just don't get caught, or start to feel guilty. If you have any doubt, do not do it. 

 
Friday, August 5, 2016 7:52 PM
ALF

To the guest above:

So, you're saying that your husband can go out and sleep with other women to have his sexual needs met?  After all, it won't affect your relationship in a negative way and there's nothing wrong with it.  Right?

 
Tuesday, August 9, 2016 5:11 AM
Lanah102

I'm always miffed by women who cheat and feel great about it. Just let your partner know so he can go out and have fun also without you knowing? Why not do that????

 
Tuesday, August 9, 2016 7:11 AM
People seem to like trouble

Cheating is wrong. It is betrayal. You wouldn't accept a liar, someone who would drop you in trouble or not have your back so how can you condone cheating. It's understandable that people do it but it is wrong. Think of it like crime which can be thrilling but the consequences of participating will ruin everything in your life and everything you love (If you get caught). If you want to cheat because you sexually can't control yourself then why not spice it up with your partner (dress up, do it in public etc). It's sad to see that the world we live in people honour and exalt those who do wrong and it isn't cool or fun to be a decent good person. It's boring I'm told ! It is also sad to see that people are controlled by desires and addictions. Sex is a dangerous addiction because of its psychological aspect in that you may relate situations and things and types of people with Sex and could lead to seeking to explore these fantasies. To become the best you can be it is well known that through controlling your emotions your outlook thinking process and manner in which you deal with things would be way better. You'll probably be as close to zen as you could be without being a Buddhist or monk lol learn to control yourself and cheating, anger , addictions stress will leave your life!

 
Tuesday, August 16, 2016 1:30 PM
Guest

my husband and i sex life has been non existent I recently started talking to an ex and recently met him and fooled around (no actual penis penetration) and since them Im horny all the time. My husband and i have had sex the last 2 weeks because my ex woke something thats been dormat last few years. I would never tell my husband but the thrill of being desired by two men has made me want it all the time. 

 

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