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My wife cheated on me

Wednesday, January 20, 2016 3:21 PM by Josh Rating: +19|-12

Well I'll start out like this my wife and I have been married for 15 years together for 20. She has cheated on me with 11 guys 3 full on intercourse 6- kissing making out and oral on her but just for a minute till she stopped them. Then 1- she kissed and 1- Sexted on Facebook. So all that's out of the way I was crushed we have 2 children together we were high school sweet hearts. 

It all came out I found the messages on Facebook talking about her being a dirty nurse and bringing her outfit with her to drill she's also in the military. I confronted her about this and told her to come clean and we can work it out. Needless to say I wasn't prepared for what I was told she cheated while in military school she couldn't remember their names. The first they had a party and she got drunk and got screwed she said it didn't last long and wasn't goodnight at all. Then the next guy they went to the beach a two day trip. They had sex the next morning supposedly it didn't last long and wasn't good either. Then a guy from close to our town went to tech school there they hooked up one night just kissing and heavy petting 

Then we got married a year after that. She stayed true for 5 years then more military school in a different state and one night of clubbing and drinking another guy kissed and heavy petting then she stopped it. Or so she said. The next guy she was on AD in another state, we had a argument on the phone so she started drinking and he was there with a shoulder to cry on and they had sex. Yet again it didn't last long and wasn't good. Then another guy they were at a club drinking and they ended up at his room they made out and he went down on her but she stopped it supposedly. Then another time she had a pool party at my house with her one of her girlfriends and three men from the base. They all we're drinking and she flashed them. Then her friend and one of the guys went to my house for sex. One of the guys left during this. So my wife and one guy was left he kissed her they started making out then she stopped it supposedly. The guys left my house. Then another man same story they were drinking ended up kissing and making out and he ate my wife then she stopped it. Then the last guy. This one bugs me more than the rest. They went on AD for two weeks that's when they started talking and texting he kissed her one night and that was it. She rode back to her base with him then she drove home. Over the next few months they texted daily and meet up at a mutual friends house for drinks and they made out and he went down on her she stopped it supposedly. Then they went out one more time he kissed her and she told him no more she was finished. They texted each other for a couple more years and finally it burned out. This is my story it is a true event I haven't left my wife yet we have two kids together not sure what to do. 

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Thursday, January 21, 2016 7:23 AM
Guest

leave. Get ecorts. good looking ones. don't  cuckold them just normal photos and have the.  omega by. makes her as she suffer thinking you heating oil. her. when she complains ask her why was it OK for her and not for you. 

 
Thursday, January 21, 2016 8:37 AM
Guest

You should leave her. Why let someone treat you so bad for so long? And obviously she isnt sorry if she has done it multiple times. Also the fact that you ahev children together, doesnt mean that you ahve  to stay in the relationship. How long are you going to stay, what will be the last straw. If she has cheated this many times, then of course she will do it again.  I hope you think of yourself, and divorce her. Find someone that will treat you, and love you better. 

 
Thursday, January 21, 2016 2:22 PM
Guest

Leave.

As stated above, this is a long standing pattern.  She is not going to change. She is lying about how much she did, how many times, and how many men.  I think that she has proved conclusively that she is worthy of neither your trust nor your respect.

Take your time - make your plan.  Step 1- consult a lawyer. Don't look for a shark; find one with integrity.

Your primary obligation is to your children. You can only meet that obligation if you look after yourselfto look after their best intererests.

You will need to take the long view because the short(er) term is going to be very painful, regardless of what you choose to do.

Others have been through this; you will survive.  "Minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day."

 

 
Friday, January 22, 2016 8:36 AM
ME

DAMN! ANOTHER GUY AND ANOTHER GUY AND ANOTHER GUY AND ANOTHER GUY. HOW MANY TIMES ARE YOU GOING TO ALLOW THIS? DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND LEAVE HER YESTERDAY.

 
Friday, January 22, 2016 2:47 PM
Guest

Well I'm going to stay with her and see how it goes. We have talked it over I'm going to stay in a different room and work on gaining trust back. She got saved a couple years ago that's when she quit texting the last guy. All this is very hard to grasp. I love coming home every day to my children that's the main reason. Hopefully she can stay faithful from now on only time will tell. I know you all will say I'm a pussy for staying maybe I am but if she does it again I will leave and hopefully get custody of my kids. 

 
Friday, January 22, 2016 8:14 PM
Guest

Bro - I will be as blunt as I can be, because I think you need it.

1. This is definitely her MO - she justifies her cheating in her mind and tries to minimize it in your eyes by saying the sex was bad. Well, obviously that can't be the case every single time. 

2. Your wife has issues she needs to address, self esteem or otherwise. Getting saved will not address her obvious need to fill that void by hooking up with man after man.

3. Sleeping in separate rooms and gaining trust sounds like an awful plan - what are you doing to gain trust? 

4. Don't use your children as an excuse to justify your fear of being alone. You obviously have some issues to address as well or would not allow yourself to be treated like this. Also if your children are that big of a concern to you, who is to say that you wouldn't get primary custody of them? Your wife has a hell of a track record - is frequently out on military training. Without knowing much about you, sounds like a lot is in your favor.

 

i would never recommend taking the easy way out - but if you were really concerned about your children, you would think about how your wife's mistakes puts you at risk for catching a horrible disease like hiv. It's much better to be wifeless and a single father who will be there for his children for many years, than to be married, miserable and dead in a few.

 
Saturday, January 23, 2016 6:10 AM
Mark

No you need to leave there's something there in the marriage she can't live without my guess is that your a good dad. Get a lawyer and get a shark she cheated on you like that all those times. Get your children get out and move on life is to short to ever have to put up with that 

 
Sunday, March 6, 2016 9:54 PM
Guest

I highly doubt that she stopped any of it, and she probably did a lot more then what she is telling you. If you can get proof you can take it to her commander and she'll get busted down to E-1. When I was in the service I saw a friend of mine kill himself because of a spouse that cheated on him a lot. It was horrible to see him go through it. 

 

Leave her and find someone else. Trust me, you don't want your kids to have to deal with this at a young age because it can mess up thier relationships with people in the future.

 

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