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My girlfriend cheated on me

Sunday, July 31, 2016 6:42 PM by Guest Rating: +18|-21

So me and my girl friend have been together for almost two years. Everything was good and I'm a teacher in Dallas and she's in college trying to finish up her last classes, I'm 25 and shes 23 about to be 24 in October. So me and her never look thru each other's phones. I trust her and we just don't wanna go thru each other's phone because it seems childish. So we went to California on a vacation and I started to notice that she's been acting funny. A month later we was both out with our friends at uptown and on the way home we got into a fight. I broke my rule and went thru her phone. She has been texting other dudes and leading them on. She has been texting dudes for months, so I kicked her out my house and she was crying and telling me that it was nothing. I'm lost now because I really love her and I have a lot invested in her. So I'm lost not because I don't know how I'm going to ever trust her agian. I'm lost because I don't want to lose everything but I can't live with the tought that she could do me like this. 

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Tuesday, August 2, 2016 5:08 PM
Guest

Best if you break up with her considering she was texting other guys6

 
Tuesday, August 2, 2016 5:18 PM
Guest

She obviously is looking to explore. If you ask me she just showed you her true colors. It starts out as texts then eventually someone will recommend meeting up and she up for it. I think you should take some time to yourself. Maybe you should explore as well and if you 2 comeback together then all is well. I'm 34 years old man and I'm here to tell you that as a man you have A LOT of time. Don't waste it on someone you can't trust. It's ok to love but some people you have to love at a safe distance so that you won't get hurt.

 
Tuesday, August 2, 2016 8:05 PM
Guest

  DON'T BE A FOOL. STAPLE YOUR BALLS BACK TOGETHER AND LEAVE 

 
Wednesday, August 3, 2016 10:58 AM
Andrea

 What do i do?

I have been with my boyfriend for the past 6 months I know it's not a long time but I loved him. He chated on me with a girl after two months of being together, I forgave him because I believe in second chances. We rebuilt trust again. Two days ago we were sleeping and I saw how he sent a dick pic to some girl on snapchat, we broke up. 

Turns out that was a webcam girl who he has been exchanging stuff since we started going out. I don't know what to do. He sounds very sorry and genuine. I don't know what to believe. The relationship has been great, we complemented each other very well. Thank you for listening. 

 
Wednesday, August 3, 2016 10:26 PM
To andrea

. I am faithful  because I choose to be. But it is sooooo fucking hard to be faithful. It is a choice a man must make in order to be with the woman he loves. I don't  want to loose my wife and lose her respect. I definitely  don't  want to hurt her in any way. Can you say that about your man. DO YOU THINK HE LOVES YOU enough to commit  to  you until  death. We all struggle  in life. We may fall short and make a mistake  but it's usually  because one of the person fall away due to different  situations. In takes two  fully committed  people for it to work. If one falls away it must be known why. What is lacking that caused the other to stray.This is long term relationship  problems. It's only 6 months  and already hes dealing  with  you  with deciet. 6 months into a relationship I would be to busy smashing the hell out of my girls cunt then to be looking for a knew one. Sorry to be so discusting but I have to be honest. ITS A SIGN RON A WAY NOW.

 
Thursday, August 4, 2016 1:08 PM
ALF

You did the right thing dude.  You can use this time to take a step back and take a good look at your relationship.  Is it REALLY what you thought it was?  Do you want to try to stay in it?  Don't obsess over "losing everything".  This incident is a good sign that you were on your way out with her anyways.

 
Tuesday, August 9, 2016 7:27 AM
to guest and then Andrea

guest, indeed Alfs right . Take time out to truly evaluate how you feel. However don't get too caught up in your feelings as you may react out of emotion rather than logic and intuition. Sometimes people are so afraid of not being good enough for their partner or so afraid of disappointment it makes them act in a way they shouldn't. You have to remember that although she flirted she never did anything physically maybe due to the internal battle within herself. However you are right to be upset as she broke your trust and your respect. You have to ask yourself can you forgive and forget and move on? Does she make you happy or is this one of many issues you have? The quicker you make your decision the quicker you can move on!

Andrea sounds like your bf has a habit that he unfortunately should have left when he met you. While it is very wrong and disrespectful to send the pics esp behind your back please understand to him this may be no different to playing with himself and watching porn. Speak to him about it and let him know how you feel I'm sure you will come to some sort of understanding 

 
Tuesday, August 16, 2016 8:01 AM
MrAnonymus

Andrea &College love

sounds like walking away time

Andrea your boy is cheating on you through webcam sorry to say but that is probably the start there is a  strong possibility that his actions will only increase into some more so best to avoid so early on. Belief in God or not take what you know now as a sign!

College Love might be time to look for a Lover Time lover but again it's up to you. This flirting around is cheating basically leading them on what is to say that is all she did or will do. She's grown and knows what type of relationship you guys have. So she knew the risk surely that means there are consequences depends now on you. Your only mid 20s life hasn't just began but it no where near over.

More on I would say

 

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