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I cheated on my husband

Friday, August 12, 2016 8:50 AM by maggieray Rating: +18|-10

I was happliy married for ten years.  In October, I met someone and fell in in love instantly.  I tried to restist.  I even told my husband what happened and how this person made me feel.  I told him I was afraid of these srtong feelings.  My husband kind of brushed over it and didn't take it seriously.  He was traveling often.  I caved and started seeing the other man.  I'm in love with him.  I remeber how I felt about my husband and I don't want to walk away from my marrige and family.  I don't want to stop loving this other man.  I don't want to get caught.  We are not seeing each other right now so I can figure things out.  I don't know what will happen but life is complicted right now and I feel conficted all of the time.  I know something will give in the end but for right now I am living in limbo and have been for ten months.

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Sunday, August 14, 2016 7:49 PM
Julius

Normally  this would  be the part I call you a whore. NOPE not this time. Your husband  is an ASS. You were honest and he ignored it. Well more like he didn't  care  and it's probably  because  he found someone  else. Easy move, leave him because  there is no way in hell I would've  left you alone with this man and tried to make you remember  why you married me. It's like he was wanted you to  cheat.  Unless he is in to that. 

 
Monday, August 15, 2016 1:47 AM
ALF

If you met someone and fell in love instantly, you weren't happily married.  If you were you wouldn't have developed strong feelings for the other man.  You say that you don't want to stop loving the other man, but you don't say that you love your husband.  You just remember how you once felt about him.  Why would you consider staying with him?  It's clear you're making yourself miserable, and in light of your conduct, you'll just make your husband miserable.  Your interest is more about not getting caught than working on marital issues.  You should consider just walking away.

 
Monday, August 15, 2016 12:46 PM
Guest

There is no easy answer to this, but you have to make a desicion, it's not fair to anyone, including yourself. Talk to your husband, tell him what happened, tell him why it happened and ask him what he wants. Good luck. 

 
Monday, August 15, 2016 3:44 PM
Guest

Keep your husband and fuck this other guy on the sly. Just be discreet. Do that until/unless you decide to leave your husband for this other guy. If you can handle the guilt (thrill?) from cheating, there is no reason you can't enjoy the other guy along with all that you like about your marriage.

 
Monday, August 15, 2016 5:24 PM
jimi

it is fine enjoy life, your husband knows about it, there is morning way 

On earth he can't feel it in your smile in your hug in your eyes ....

i am a cheater too and I love it. 

 
Wednesday, August 17, 2016 6:04 AM
LanaH102

If you got to the point of going home and telling hubby you're in love with another man then you know your marriage is over. An what type of man keeps a woman who say's that. Maybe you ywo deserve each other

 
Wednesday, August 17, 2016 1:29 PM
bogey

Sounds like another bored wife too afraid to divorce her husband because she is afraid of being single and taking care of herself and childen. Did you tell him because somhow he would give his permission?  I suspect he had no idea what you were talking about. I guess the new love of your life hasn't ask you to move in and pay your bills, huh?  So keep fucking around until he does and your husband can remain your back up...What an A@#$hole!

 
Friday, September 9, 2016 7:04 AM
Guest

Love is a choice not a feeling.  Lust is a feeling for which you must make a choice.  Who do you choose to love?  You are choosing to not love your husband and choosing to embrace the lust you have for this other guy. 

 

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