I been with my boyfriend on and off for about 8 years. I think we are just used too each other. Our sex life is the worst, he is never in the mood. Probably sex once every two months. He said that he feels fat, overweight and with no self esteem. I do everything to make him feel good about himself, i always tell him how much I love him. I usually trust people and never in million years thought he will be doing something. I checked his facebook and he flirted with many girls and making arrengaments to have sex with this girl. so I confronted him and he said that it was not him and that he gave his password to his friend. long story short that was a lie. he swear is all talk and that nothing really happens. He is nice to me, we barely fight, so I'm confused don't know what to do. I get hit by a lot of guys all the time. Friends always joke saying im too good looking for him and he knows that. I'm an independent woman and want real love. Any advice I appreciated. Oh yeah I been  cheated on him with a co-worker and I told my boyfrind about it and he thinks I'm joking. I want to leave just dont know how. Besides the sex everything else is normal.