Tell Us Your Story

Story of Cheating

<
Share Your Story
Read Stories
>
Subscribe to Stories:

Contemplating an affair

Want to Cheat

Saturday, February 6, 2016 8:56 AM by Lonely Housewifr Rating: +94|-58

My daughter is almost three. My hisband and I have had sex exactly 1 times after completing conceiving her.

I posted a personals ad recently, and have started emailing with a man who will be traveling to my town. He seems nice in paper, and the photo he sent is of a cute, muscular guy--my type.

I've spoken to my husband, and even given him an ultimatum that if he didn't help to change our current situation (sex, fighting, him working so much), I'd leave him and/or find a boyfriend to have sex with me.

Either he thinks I'm bluffing or joking because nothing has changed.

The lack of any physical contact is the least of my troubles. He doesn't give me birthday or Christmas, or even Anniversary gifts. He was even late to the Christmas dinner I made.

Seriously considering divorce, but that would take some planning, as my daughter is still young, I'm not gainfully employed, living in a country different from which I grew up, and on bad terms with my mother. In a nutshell, I need to get my $hit together before taking my daughter to start a brand new life.

I already have enough problems, and adding guilt of an affair may be the tipping point. However, I don't know how much more I can go without sex!! Masterbation is no longer cutting it. I need to feel desired and lusted, even if it's just with a nice guy I met online.

Tags: Daughter; Divorce;

Thank you for voting.

Comments

Sunday, February 7, 2016 2:58 PM
Guest

Shame you're thinking about cheating. I understand that you feel unloved, and with no intimacy or passion in your life, things must be so very difficult for you. There are plenty of guys out here that would jump at the chance to be in a loving relationship with a gorgeous woman. I hope that he see's the error of his ways as its such a shame to see a good person walk on the wrong side of life all because their partner is unconcerned with showing real affection to their loved one.

 
Sunday, February 7, 2016 3:03 PM
Guest

Please kill yourself. We have enough sluts already. 

 
Sunday, February 7, 2016 3:58 PM
Guest

No sex is really hard to push through. No amount of talking is going to do it for you. Have you tried to dress up special for him. Have you showed how beautiful you are. Or are you caught in you get what you get mate. Why not let him know what he is missing out on. He might have issues that need soughting out. If you were to give it to me everyday man. This would be a dream come true. Have a look at what you can do to entice him?

 
Sunday, February 7, 2016 5:23 PM
Guest

take your daughter and leave him. he clearly has a problem with you. stop using him for his money

 
Sunday, February 7, 2016 8:53 PM
Guest

He's obviously sleeping with someone else.  Leavie him

 
Monday, February 8, 2016 7:57 AM
Guest

Nothing changed. Find another man and rock his world.

 
Monday, February 8, 2016 4:27 PM
moycj

I think talking through problems is the best way to solve a problem.  Email me & we can talk

 
Monday, February 8, 2016 5:21 PM
mitch

You need someone to talk too.  I am a good listener.  Email me.  You have nothing to lose.

 
Tuesday, February 9, 2016 6:35 AM
Guest

At this time in your life you dont need to sleep around. Have some respect for yourself and figure out what is best for you and your daughter. Dont jump at any dick that comes your way. Most guys are only looking to have sex especially the desperate ones asking for you to email them. It's obvious that there is no communication between you both and maybe he's not atrracted to you anymore but he needs to figure what his problem is and communicate why things are the way they are. I would save some money, make peace with your mother, and move out when the time is right. Keep your morals intact because if you dont no guy is going to want to be with a HO. Keep on masturbating until you find a guy that respects you for who you are. Good Luck!

 
Wednesday, February 10, 2016 8:39 PM
I'm fair

your husband has sexually checked out. You need to sexually check in with another man who can satisfy your sexual desires.. If he doesn't want to get it together then girl go get you some sex elsewhere. 

 
Wednesday, February 17, 2016 12:46 AM
Jeff

your marriage is already over, he just forgot to tell you.

 
Saturday, February 27, 2016 7:25 AM
God of Satire

Try washing your vagina. It could be that he doesn't like the stink. Because your choice of words suggest your mouth stinks.

 
Sunday, March 6, 2016 8:39 PM
Stinky stinks

Don't mix sex or an affair into a possible divorce. Nothing good will come from that. Take care of yourself, get a divorce. and go out and meet someone real. Imagine after you cheat, you are going to have to tell the next person you meet and care for that you are a liar and cheater. 

 
Monday, March 7, 2016 12:47 PM
Guest

Do you really want a divorce because he came too late to dinner and doesn't give you any b.day presents? And are you currently only married to him because you don't have a job and he works all the time?

Seems like you love the mobey, the gifts and the sex. Good girl.

But sth sounds very ridiculus... Get your shit together, you 're a grown person.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
Monday, April 11, 2016 5:04 PM
Guest

Men treat women badly because peolpe like you. Women to me are f.....skanks all they are money hungry whores and do not care for their children. 

 

Post Comment

* - Required Fields

Hot Stories

Wednesday, November 30, 2016 10:46 PM by Guest
 
logo
Views
2719
Comments
2
I was content being the "good wife". I had always been a very sexual person but once I married I knew I had to stop that. I was even ok with the idea because I was so in love with my husband. Till it all changed one night when everyone was asleep. I saw my husbands phone on the table and decided to just take a quick look. Omg I would never have imagined all the things I would find. He was talking..
Wednesday, November 30, 2016 3:33 PM by Brian
 
logo
Views
1241
Comments
0
I worked from my home office for an overseas company so my workday started very early and thus ended early.  I used to take my mail to this wine bar where I'd go through it.  There were mostly young women there so that was my error.  Knowing I was in a place frequented by many women and few men.  I started taking a book and sat at the bar and read.  One day a woman in her early 30's began working..
Wednesday, November 23, 2016 8:05 AM by Just horny
 
logo
Views
5358
Comments
6
My current situation is I'm engaged to be married next year.. been with my fiancé for 7&1/2 yrs now.  I love him but we're not sexually compatible. When we first met we had sex all the time and it was great! We went through a rough patch last year and our sex life just fizzled.. it's quite sad really. I had an honest conversation with him letting him know I have needs and I need sex from him a..
Expert's opinion is limited to the information presented, and is to help you consider options; it is not and cannot take the place of a counseling session. By reading this, you agree that none of the experts offering information are liable for actions you or others take. If you feel that counseling could be helpful, please look up counselors available in your area.
Copyright 2016 Story of Cheating All Rights Reserved. Contact Us