My wife is from China, I met her there and married her there.  We are now in Canada for the last 7 years, my home country.

The first incident was when she went to meet a girlfriend one day for lunch, and after me calling her repeatedly on her cell, with no answer or call back, she finally called at 6 pm, and i said where the hell have u been, u did not answer your phone, and i said what the hell, are u with another man and she said yes.  The guy i told you was a teacher in Korea that is a customer where i work, i met him on the bus going to meet my gf and asked him if he wanted to meet her and he said sure.  She at lunch got called in to work, and he asked me if i wanted to go to the cinema to see a movie, so i said sure.  So she knew i was real mad, called him and said dont call me, i cant see you again.  A month later, i find out she is still seeing him, same routine. she phones in front of me and say cannot see you ever again, and beleive or not, month of so later i find out again she still seeing him, and them i gave her the ultimatum, again and i am gone.  She says they were just friends, nothing sexual at all.

Then a year ago i was out of town on a business trip and when i got home i found out she had gone out one night at 6pm and had not come home until 10 am the next morning.  She had never stayed out past 11pm at most.  I asked her, she said she stayed at gf A house all night.  Recently we had an agrument and i asked again where she was that night, and she said, i told you i stayed at gfB house.

Would sure love to hear your comments and thoughts