Friday, February 26, 2016 9:46 AM by Nimir
I'm a married man with 3 kids after 7 years into wedlock. This suggests that I am having a life full of sex but that's not correct. May be we are a virile couple. I am in my late 30's and my wife is in her mid 30's and our sex frequency is quite low. Iñ 2016, I can count on my fingers how many times we had sex and that is just four!
My wife is an amazing lady who does so much so good. Be it house chores, kids requirements, office work or any other thing, I cant complain. She has time for everything but sex. I feel frustrated thinking of it. We had a fight a couple of years back when I asked her why do I have to request you for sex? Don't you want it? In anger and frustration I refused her when she "graciously allowed" me to come near to her. She started crying over my refusal and I simply told her that's what you do regularly. Things improved for few months and then slowly got back to old routine.
I don't like begging for sex, even if I consider it my lawful right I feel bad thinking that it's not what she really wants. I am forcing her into it. I now masturbate regularly, initially when she got to know about my masturbation she didn't like it but now it has become acceptable to her.
She tells me that she gets wet dreams frequently and she wants sex regularly but once it's over she is unavailable for two weeks. I do everything to please her, play with her boobs, ready to go down on her or any other desire she might have but all in vain.
I'm not a courageous person and I don't like infidelity. But honestly speaking, at times I think I should be gutsy enough to start exploring the option of cheating. I don't want to continue this miserable and pathetic sex life!