Friday, August 12, 2016 6:23 PM by Guest
Me and my husband been married for 8 years. I have never experienced an orgasm during sex. I have to masterbate. I have been longing to get my pussy ate til I orgasm and someone I know stated he would give me that desire. I told him no penetration just oral that's it. He told me he could eat me til I have multiple orgasms. Now this has been in my head since we had the conversation. I love my husband dearly and don't want to hurt him but in need of a good orgasm. I talked to my husband on several occasions about how to make me orgasm but it seems he doesn't have the patience to even try. He bust his nutt and I want the same. I don't want to cheat but my emotions are all over the place.
That is not the answer. Test your man out to see how much he loves you. Sit down tell him you love but can't be in a orgasmless <----( just made up that word😆) Marriage. ASK FOR A DIVORCE. Not saying to leave him just see his reaction. If he truly loves you and wants to stay he will do everything in his power to help you achieve your needs. You might not like the answer but at least you will know where you stand. The other guy offering is an ass. Don't play with fire and stay away. You also have to be honest with your husband. Tell him your deepest desire no matter how slutty you might sound. What good is being married if your not honest with him. Give him a real chance before you cheat.
Once you pass through that door, there is no going back. Everything you and your husband have will be gone in an instant. Your relationship may be able to survive, but it will be irrevocably changed. That man you love dearly may not feel the same about you. I would seriously suggest that you talk TO your husband, not AT him. Maybe even get a councelor involved.
You said you love your husband... kindly stop thinking of other men , especially the creep you are talking with.... he is using you for one thing. Stay away from him and dont destroy 8 years of marriage for a 9 minute thrill.... discuss this with your husband and find ways to spice up the bedroom a bit... please dont make a mistake you will regret... I wish you the best
Communication is key. If you are unhappy talk to him, ask your husband how he would like it if you orgasmed and then left him hanging...everytime. Remind him that you love him and want to be with him and that he's the only man for you but that he does have to bring his A game to the table.
Unless you are a very strong willed cock tease, you will fuck this guy shortly after you feel his tongue on your clit. If you are not ready to walk on the dark side without guilt, then push your husband to give you orgasms or give you sexual freedom. Whether that is a divorce or an open marriage.
@ cynthia. I hope your kidding on the 9 minute thrill. Lol. I think half hour is short let alone 9 min.
Don't cheat! If you really want to start having the big O then start masturbating. Rub your clit and imagine it's your husbands tongue. Once you start learning your own body then you can start teaching your hubby how to please you. It can be fun and exciting! Plus you'll be building a relationship with your husband and not some guy you don't really have feeling for. This might sound stupid but I personally did not have good Os until I started masturbatong and learning my own body. Good luck!
Why are you naysayers on this site? The name of this site is "storyofcheating" that should give you a clut that it is about infidelity, adultery or whatever you want to call it. There are people who enjoys this type of fetish.