Thursday, September 1, 2016 7:49 PM by Jon
My wife and her friends each year for about 10 years head down to Florida for a girls only vacation. I'm a pretty secure guy but there are some indicators that make me wonder what really happens down there. Some times I'll call, no answer, so I text, no reply til the next morning. The girls all talk about dancing and how cheap it is to party down in the keys. Are they getting guys to buy drinks? My wife slipped and mentioned salsa dancing. She loved to dance and I'm sure guys love to watch her. She's a very attractive and sexy woman. She takes pride and a lot of time to primp herself before heading out. I also over heard them talking about being invited up to some guys apartment for an after party. That's the night she was not responding. I know her well and when she drinks she lets her guard down and becomes very flirty. Do I think she would cheat? No. But I think she is putting herself in a position for something to happen. I'd bet that 90% of cheaters thought it would never happen to them, that they were drinking, a guy showed them the right amount of attention and next thing they were sweating up the sheets. There are some things that just don't sit right in my stomach. I listen and I hear them when they talk about their trip. Once I dropped them off at the airport and returned to pick them up. Upon loading them up and all the girls talking about the trip suddenly there was a very long awkward silence. I think they were talking about something that happened and they realized I was listening. I talked to my wife and she says that she would never cheat, she wouldn't put herself in such a position...but she did, many times. I don't want her to accept a drink offer. No guy really cares that a woman has something to drink, he buys a drink and it comes with expectations of at the very least a conversation. Married women/men do not need to engage in conversations in clubs where booze is flowing. There is always an alterior motive. I don't care that she goes out with her girlfriends but I do care that she may be keeping the company of another man. If she wants male company she should invite me. I told her this and she just said I was being silly. I think almost any woman in the right setting, with the right amount of booze and a good looking guy who has the gift of gab will succumb to his advances, especially in a very exotic tropical vacation spot. Please people help me out. Am I completely off base or did I hit he nail on the head? Women, men help me understand. Especially you women. I believe most men will side with me.