so 3 weeks and 5 days ago I found out my husband cheated on me. We've been married 7years together to 2.5 years before that. I'm a nurse so I work odd shifts such as 11a-11p so I don't get home till midnight sometimes. This left my husband with a lot of free time. We have 2 kids together n I have one from a previous relationship. He's been in his life since he was 3. Long story short I found out he's been FaceTimeing and send videos sexually to one of his coworkers. She is hideous,  n have plenty of mental issues to go along. He told me he cheated because because I don't pay attention to his feelings. Well I'm not the kind of person to baby someone when they complain about things they cannot change such as being tired(we have 2 small children), not having lots of time together(once again I'm a nurse I want work odd shifts), not being able to go to the bar(your a dad duh!) not that I'm making excuses but this was a load of bullshit I smelled a mile away. No (since the woman wants to work things out with her husband) he decided he's made a huge mistake and is fucked up royally he wants to go to counseling n fix himself n get us back together. Not sure if I ever could he cheated n made me feel like it was my fault, then decided he could come back after the other women rejected him??