Didn't see it coming

My husband cheated on me

Wednesday, April 6, 2016 10:01 PM by Guest Rating: +5|-2

so 3 weeks and 5 days ago I found out my husband cheated on me. We've been married 7years together to 2.5 years before that. I'm a nurse so I work odd shifts such as 11a-11p so I don't get home till midnight sometimes. This left my husband with a lot of free time. We have 2 kids together n I have one from a previous relationship. He's been in his life since he was 3. Long story short I found out he's been FaceTimeing and send videos sexually to one of his coworkers. She is hideous, n have plenty of mental issues to go along. He told me he cheated because because I don't pay attention to his feelings. Well I'm not the kind of person to baby someone when they complain about things they cannot change such as being tired(we have 2 small children), not having lots of time together(once again I'm a nurse I want work odd shifts), not being able to go to the bar(your a dad duh!) not that I'm making excuses but this was a load of bullshit I smelled a mile away. No (since the woman wants to work things out with her husband) he decided he's made a huge mistake and is fucked up royally he wants to go to counseling n fix himself n get us back together. Not sure if I ever could he cheated n made me feel like it was my fault, then decided he could come back after the other women rejected him??

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Sunday, April 10, 2016 7:18 AM

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It's really hard when you have young children, a demanding job and (it sounds like) very little sleep. I feel for you, I really do. And there is so much confusing advice out there. One friend told me do everything you can to hold your family together. (How many times, I wonder?) She also said she thinks every man cheats (but arent they cheating with other women, I ask?)

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