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I cheated on my boyfriend

Thursday, May 26, 2016 4:16 AM by Andrea Rating: +6|-4

Hey everyone,

So I have a question which I do not want to ask anyone I know. I had a relationship with a guy for almost 5 years and I was the one to break up although he didn't agree. After some time I have realised that it was a mistake, I was missing him too much. Nevertheless he didn't take me back and he said that he turned the page. It hurt me as hell and I kept trying to forget him, forced myself to move on. When I felt that I was ready to be in a new relationship, I met a really cute guy and we started dating. Meanwhile my ex started texting all of a sudden, my bf did not like it so he told him to back off that's why I remained quite, couldn't get the chance to confront. There were plenty of things that I wanted to tell him, so that I wrote him a long mail. I basically said whatever comes uppermost, the facts &my frustrations etc. I also thanked him and that all same old wish you well stuff. I wanted to tell him myself that he should not contact me again. I felt so good after getting things out of my system. I made sure that he cant reply back. Now knowing that my bf would be so upset (he would make it a big issue since he hates my ex) if he knew that I did such a thing, I feel guilty but at the same time I feel like I had to let go.

So is it considered cheating?  I dont want to tell him. If I do, it would only make things more complicated. What do you think?

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Comments

Thursday, May 26, 2016 3:59 PM
Guest

No! This is a bit silly actually.

 
Thursday, May 26, 2016 9:52 PM
Guest1

No, that's not cheating you done the right thing by getting everything you needed to out and making sure it didn't boil up

inside of you & blocking him was the right move definitely not cheating 

 
Sunday, September 18, 2016 4:11 PM
TheBestAdvice

It was not cheating.

 
Wednesday, September 21, 2016 11:05 AM
Guest

not even close to cheating. That is called closure.

 

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