people dont do things for no reason.. by fooling around you were getting something from it that your marriage doesnt give you.. you know perfectly well what that is/was.. satisfaction??,control over something in your life???,revenge..getting even for something?? these are the "usual" answers.. give your guy a chance to fulfill whatever it is your lacking.. my wife just decided to act as well,no explanation.. claims im "great" like you feel your man is.. take my advice.. i'm having a hard time getting her to unload what the problem is(what SHE was trying to get).. all i want to do is repair the damage but im stuck because i have no answers.. figure this out..let your man know what you figure out.. and above all be honest.. men will go by your words not your meaning.. be clear and exact.. take all accountability out of your hands..everyone has a right to want what they want, but not at others expense.. again.. GIVE HIM THE CHANCE...

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There is something seriously wrong with you. That is your problem, seek psychiatric help. As far as your husband is concerned: if you love him as you say you do they only thing you can do is set him free. Free from your abusive, cheating ass. You are a terrible wife and a sick woman. If you try to hold on to your husband, that is only proof of your illness and selfishness. You do not love him. If you loved him or at least respected him, you would not have cheated on him. You are a bad person, if you want redemption: let your huisband go - don't rape him in the divorce, give him the children if there are any (you are too sick and a terrible role model) Finally, pray to God for help - Find Jesus because no other religion will forgive your sins. 

You are deep down an animal and you have urges that needs quenching like we all do. Our mind and conscience conjure up notions of love etc. You are in a battle with your conscience and your animalistic self. Either leave him and be an animal or fight and regain your humanity.

If you really love him you will let him go and don't try to screw him over in court. That's the best you can do at this point. I spent 10 years in a bad marriage trying to make it work. In the end I found out my wife was cheating on me and I was just wasting my life away. When I finally got divorced a great burden was lifted from me. Now I am remarried to a beautiful and most importantly honorable woman and life is wonderful. So again, if you love your husband set him free.

You need to understand you love dick and the change you want in your life is the fact that you want to be gangbanged by everyone in your town because obviously you don't love your husband.

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What women want is attention and appreciation all the time . Possibly a long time relationship/marriage does not give all these in the long run. So women try and find alternative measures, to keep them feeling desired and beautiful. According to me , this is the core reason for if not all such issues. It's not always about sexual satisfaction and carnal desires.