Friday, July 29, 2016 6:23 AM by Guest
I dont want to show my name.. me and my husband are in relation for last 10 years. I am so happy with him. I like him and love him like anything.. but i dont know why and when I started dating other men. I really dont knw what I want from this life.. i am very upset because I love him. One fine day he came to know everything i was doing behind him. What can I do plz guide me. I don't want to loose him. And really want to change myself.
What has he said to you so far. He has caught you. WhY can't you change. Why do you cheat? Is it the rush that your doing something your not supposed to do? Do other men really turn you on? What is your problem to begin with? I think your just selfish
people dont do things for no reason.. by fooling around you were getting something from it that your marriage doesnt give you.. you know perfectly well what that is/was.. satisfaction??,control over something in your life???,revenge..getting even for something?? these are the "usual" answers.. give your guy a chance to fulfill whatever it is your lacking.. my wife just decided to act as well,no explanation.. claims im "great" like you feel your man is.. take my advice.. i'm having a hard time getting her to unload what the problem is(what SHE was trying to get).. all i want to do is repair the damage but im stuck because i have no answers.. figure this out..let your man know what you figure out.. and above all be honest.. men will go by your words not your meaning.. be clear and exact.. take all accountability out of your hands..everyone has a right to want what they want, but not at others expense.. again.. GIVE HIM THE CHANCE...
You already will get guidance from your husband who will get to choose whether to dump your cheating ass or not. So ask him what you should do because he was being cheated on, not us.
Find Jesus<----Not it a joke
You say you don't know why you date other men, and don't know what you want out of life? I think I can safely say that your husband doesn't want you dating other men, and doesn' t want to spend the rest of his life with a cheating wife. That being said, I think you should separate from your husband and go fix yourself. Your husband made a commitment to you, he shouldn't have to be the one to fix your indescretions. Let him go if you can't commit.
There is something seriously wrong with you. That is your problem, seek psychiatric help. As far as your husband is concerned: if you love him as you say you do they only thing you can do is set him free. Free from your abusive, cheating ass. You are a terrible wife and a sick woman. If you try to hold on to your husband, that is only proof of your illness and selfishness. You do not love him. If you loved him or at least respected him, you would not have cheated on him. You are a bad person, if you want redemption: let your huisband go - don't rape him in the divorce, give him the children if there are any (you are too sick and a terrible role model) Finally, pray to God for help - Find Jesus because no other religion will forgive your sins.
If you need some strange cock in you, go get it, and don't feel guilty. Just be discreet about it. There is no harm done as long as your husband does not find out. Why fuck up everything that you like about your marriage over your appetite for strange cock. Just feed that hunger. But don't get busted.
You are deep down an animal and you have urges that needs quenching like we all do. Our mind and conscience conjure up notions of love etc. You are in a battle with your conscience and your animalistic self. Either leave him and be an animal or fight and regain your humanity.
How many of us creave either the attention or excitement of "a strange one"?
If you really love him you will let him go and don't try to screw him over in court. That's the best you can do at this point. I spent 10 years in a bad marriage trying to make it work. In the end I found out my wife was cheating on me and I was just wasting my life away. When I finally got divorced a great burden was lifted from me. Now I am remarried to a beautiful and most importantly honorable woman and life is wonderful. So again, if you love your husband set him free.
"I love him". No you don't. You should say "i love dick" instead.
You need to understand you love dick and the change you want in your life is the fact that you want to be gangbanged by everyone in your town because obviously you don't love your husband.
im in same situation, i had sex with a stranger twice through a hookup site. Its all i think about day and night. I tried fucking my husband and being satisfied but Im just faking it. I love him he just doesnt satisfy me sexually. I want men to fuck me and have their way with me if I didnt have to worry about STDS, HIV Or that there are some sick people out there I would have fucked a different cock every day. I was faithful for 8 yrs now I dont know how to turn this lust off.
Guest who wrote story, how many other men have fucked you, did they use condoms, did you give them blow jobs and swallow
. last guest how many men have you cheated with, did thwy use condoms, did you swallow there cumm
Think about it this way. When you are in a store and you see a beautiful, expensive piece of jewelry and you don't have the money to buy it do you steal it. Hopefully you don't. As a rational adult human being you should learned to control your impulses. When a man sees you he may be attracted to you but hopefully he doesn't come over and rape you. Hopefully he doesn't because he can control his impulses. When you get into a relationship, you make an explicit or implied agreement to be sexually exclusive. Just because its sex you don't get a free pass to no exercise control. By having sex outside the relationship, you are taking something from your partner that you promised them. You promised him to be sexually exclusive and you broke your promise. You are not a horrible thing. There may not be a way to fix this.
Reading between the lines it sounds like you may be with him for his money and not really because you love him. If you really love him and you are sure that you will never do this again the tell him you love him and that you are sorry and that you'll never do anything like this again. If you want to stay in the relationship you should submit to him in the marriage from this day forward. I'm not traditional, but in this case you need to submit to him controling the relationship. Don't acc any abuse, but everything else should be under his control.
What women want is attention and appreciation all the time . Possibly a long time relationship/marriage does not give all these in the long run. So women try and find alternative measures, to keep them feeling desired and beautiful. According to me , this is the core reason for if not all such issues. It's not always about sexual satisfaction and carnal desires.