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Feeling guilty

I cheated on my husband

Thursday, May 12, 2016 1:04 PM by Rebeca Rating: +14|-11

i have cheated on my husband because i was feeling lonely, because i was alone at home in overseas and nobody was around me. I was depressed and whenever asked my hubby to stay home and go out togethet, he just said i'm busy with my work. The reason of cheating is not important to me. I just feel guilty. I can't forgive myself. I cry every second of my life. I can't enjoy my life anymore. I just want to die. I'm scared and worried about everything. If others had seen me and if my husband know what i have done, he will die. If anything happen to my hubby i will kill myself. Please help me. Tell me what should i do. How forgive myself and how make away negative thoughts from myself. I love my husband. We both love each other. I never do it again with him but now after 2 years of cheating i can't forget. If anybody tell him what i have done, what i can do?

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Thursday, May 12, 2016 2:16 PM
Guest

Did you cheat for 2 years? Or has it been 2 years since you've cheated?either way you dealing with demons that can only go away by confronting him about it. That's your biggest dilemma. I think in your heart he deserves to know

 
Thursday, May 12, 2016 2:32 PM
Guest

what a Cunt I don't feel sorry for you at all, while the Husband works you're ass is out cheating

 
Thursday, May 12, 2016 6:53 PM
Guest

If you tell him be prepared for whatever he gives you, so sad I hope 2 year of getting dicked down with another man was worth it!

 
Thursday, May 12, 2016 7:05 PM
Guest

evryone cheats I cheated with a women and has a 1 year and a half relationship, me being so focused on the new pussy I lost track of my women . When I went out the door she left after me to see another man, when I came back home she was already back showered in the bed and my dumb ass never even knew she had left because I was still gone when she got back. One day we had an argument and was on the verge of ending everything after 12 years of being together, we put all our shit on the table, she had been with 1 man and I had fucked 7 , I think her being with that 1 guy fucked me up more because I never had a clue she was doing that I guess because I was so focused on the other women. I was paying for hotels every weekend making sure to tell them at the desk don't send shit to my house. Long story short we worked everything out and our relationship is much stronger , she told me next time I want to fuck someone be honest with her and don't lie, and she would like to watch but she has to approve the women 1st..

 
Friday, May 13, 2016 11:53 AM
Guest

your ego got in the way... your suffering will tech you to do the right thing next time.. good luck

 
Friday, May 13, 2016 11:59 PM
Guest

The right thing to do is tell him. Yes it will hurt him and you very much. He may decide to walk away from your marriage. But the guilt will never leave you till you are honest. You may think with time it will get better, but eventually all secrets come out.  Your husband may already know you have done something wrong. You would be surprised how one spouse can sense another's change in behavior. I am a workaholic who didn't always give spouse enough attention. I have this sense she had an affair and won't tell me. But she is only protecting herself if she did as you are doing now. Ask yourself would you want to know!

 
Monday, May 16, 2016 10:10 AM
Guest

The only way to get rid of your guilty consience is by telling him the TRUTH. Sometimes in life we dont get that second chance. Better keep your legs crossed next time

 
Wednesday, May 18, 2016 10:22 AM
Guest

its easy you said if anything happens to him you'd kill your self. You're lonely and he isn't around leave him. You're obviously kidding yourself into thinking you actually love him. If you do leave him and let him be with some one honest and loyal.

 
Monday, June 20, 2016 1:24 AM
Guest

You felt lonely?? Boo-fucking-hoo you are still a fucking slut

 
Saturday, September 17, 2016 6:37 AM
TheBestAdvice

I'm not trying to be mean but the reasons you gave for cheating on your husband are not reasons, they are just excuses. Until you begin to take responsibility for your actions it will be difficult for you to heal. You cheated on your husband because you chose to cheat. You wAnted to cheat. You felt sorry for yourself and decided that you were entirely to cheat. You should post on bere and make a statement where you take full responsibility for the cheating.

Once you fully take ownership then you can begin to heal. As long as you blame what you did on him or anyone else you can't heal. 

 

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