I dated this man for almost a year, he joined the army and was honestly the most amazing person ever. But blinded by love, i came home mostly hearing stories about how he would let his bestfriends in whom were girls into his bedroom, they would watch movies and then go out for dinner, i wouldnt hear from him until hed come home at 6am in the morning. I never really focused on what he did when he wasnt talking to me, instead i let him do what ever he wanted and was always there giving him the attention that he needed. It was when i saw that he commented on a girl from the ukraine that she was extremely sexy and he wanted to get to know her better, then i became suspicious and grew to become clingy around him. I trusted he wouldnt do such a thing because he was just this amazing guy. Then suddenly he wouldnt answer my calls at 12 at night because he was talking to his 'mother' until 3am, sounds pretty sus doesnt it? but me being stupid, i believed him. He went out for a 'boys' weekend, and i didnt hear from him until the monday morning, he kept repeating to himself how bad it was, and all the regret from 'drinking', he started sucking up to me, telling me he really loved me and i kept saying, wow where did this come from? I asked if he cheated on me, and he said no so i believed him and went on to plan our anniversary happening 3 days later. That monday, i had received a friend request from this girl. It was not until the day before our anniversary she told me they had hooked up that weekend and has "it" couple of times, i was devastated and angry, i felt sorry for her, not only did he lie to me but he lied to her saying he never had a gf. She felt so disgusted, anyways i dumped his sorry ass.