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My wife cheated on me

Sunday, June 28, 2015 6:46 AM by Guest Rating: +32|-24

Fall 2009. My wife and I are arguing and I vent my frustrations on Facebook. Within an hour a friend of mine sends me a private message telling me to call him. So I do and he informs me that my wife and another friend of mine had been fooling around. I confront this other friend and he denies it. I then confront my wife and the very first words out of her mouth was, after I told her that I already confronted him, was, "what did he say?" It was at that moment that I knew it was true, but I ignored it. 

Summer 2012. My wife and I separate. I move in with a friend and get a second job as a part-time cook at a bar just to help make ends meet. As my shift ended, I sat at the bar to have a drink. A friend of mine approached me and told me that my wife was fooling around with a coworker of hers. I was a little confused at the moment because we were separated, but when we separated we both made the agreement that we wouldn't see anyone else. So I drove to her house (our house) and confronted her. She denied it, of course. In October of of 2012, we agreed to get back together.

September 2014. Suspecting that my wife did cheat on me in 2009 and 2012, I would, from time to time, Google her name just to see if anything would come up. So one day I decided to rephrase my search, and decided to do an image search. Low and behold, the third image was my wife performing oral sex on a guy. My heart dropped. I showed her the picture and to my surprise, she denied that it was her. But a day later she did admit that it was her with her coworker. She the confessed that she had slept with him in July and August, and one last time in December, after we got back together when she was supposed to be at a doctors appointment. She also confessed to sleeping with my friend twice back in 2009.

I do suspect that there may be other times that she cheated, but if she did, she won't tell me. What's the point? I already know she's cheated.

We are still married, but I don't trust her and I resent the hell out of her.  

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Saturday, July 11, 2015 10:20 PM

Are you venting? asking for advice? keep updating. In your shoes, I would not be married to such a horrible, lying, manipulative, dishonnest, selfish person. I'm also curious why you still call the paramour your friend?

Sunday, July 12, 2015 6:06 AM

I'm venting. In this I call him friend because at the time he was my friend, but not anymore. Why am I still married to her? I don't know, to be honest. I guess maybe it's because I'm hoping that we can be fixed as a couple. Call me dumb, I know. 

Monday, July 13, 2015 7:19 PM

I'm on this site venting as well. It helps. I actually did a google image search and that's how I found out who the guy was.

 In my opinon, of course there were other times but she'll never admit to it but what difference does it make? You only need to prove it once. Of course she'll do it again. Don't trust her.

Saturday, July 25, 2015 11:43 PM

Your are the most mindless stupid or insanely innocent Or you are dumb as fuck.  I m sorry for being rude but m being really very honest Please divorce that woman and belive me world is a big place where u will actully find someone worth your love and if you are worried about after divorce about she might take your house and all so chill that womam will not be getting shit because she cheated on you please you deserve better at least than that woman

Wednesday, July 29, 2015 6:15 PM

What's her name I want to google it now !

Wednesday, August 5, 2015 2:57 PM

Update: I obtained divorce papers and filled them out, but I haven't turned them in just yet. I'm confused as all hell and terrified. I'm pushing 40, haven't been with anyone else, her and I have been together since we were teenagers and we have spent half of our lives together. I know that old saying, about plenty of fish in the sea, but I wouldn't even begin to know how to approach another woman without coming off desperate or something. My GOD! Life sucks right now. The emotions that are running through me is so damn overwhelming.

Saturday, August 8, 2015 2:20 AM

Im in your shoes right now, my wife started going out all the time and acting cruel towards me all the time. One day I found her old cell phone and discovered she had multiple dating websites, I found out she had slept with atleast one of them, and sent pictures of him bragging to a few of her friends. Im hurt, confused, lost, and wondering what to do next with kids in the picture. 

Tuesday, August 11, 2015 9:35 AM

I can relate to ya man. Just moved to a new area and state for work and it is tough as hell to meet eligble sane woman. But just keep looking and get the bad elements out of your life to start.

Tuesday, August 11, 2015 6:46 PM

You need man up and get out of there. also you need to thunderpunch that slut in the face cause everytime you kiss this hoe does the taste of wang pop in your mouth.

Thursday, September 3, 2015 4:44 PM

I feel for you mate. The big question I would have for you is whether she shows signs of true remorse. Does she seem disgusted with herself? Has she cut all contact with her APs? Has she become overly transparent to redeem your trust? If she hasn't then she is probably still hooked. Until she breaks the need for the extra affirmation without the mundane you are still screwed. All of it probably only became real on DDay, the crux of it lies with what she did/does after DDay. Good luck, you are very much not alone.

Friday, October 2, 2015 6:44 PM

SO, why does your wife want to stay with you.  She seems like she enjoys being promiscuous.  Why waste more of your life on her?


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