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Monday, January 23, 2017 10:51 PM by Cascun Rating: +14|-11

well, im in a relationship for about a year with this girl and we both love each other a lot. While she is my first gf, im not her  first bf, she had one before me who she really loved as well (i know this because a knew her back then) it was a long distance relationship, they didn't have sex but she gave him several blowjobs (she told me), and he licked her too i belive (didn't mention). Then they broke up because of the distance and she was very affected, after breaking up she had sex with a guy who she knew like 3 times, the guy just wanted to fuck. She then just never talked to the guy, she was ver sad because of what she did and couldn't belive it ( as she told me) then a few monts later she laid eyes on me and started flirting me, and now we are here. To everybody else we look like the perfect couple, the happiest one. But it isnt that way. The thought of her just giving head to her ex is eating my mind, like did she enjoyed more doing bj to her ex than me? Etc. then the thought of her losing her virginity to a guy who she didn't love is worse! Im going crazy. And we constantly fight about this, lately not so much because i hurt her feelings while doing it, so i just die in silence. I lost my virginity to her, she was the first i had intimacy with, our sex life is great, but i fear she would compare me to the other guy. she had that intimacy with two other guys! That is seriously eating my head. I read a lot in the internet, tried a lots of ways to deal with it, but to me there are only two more ways, and those are breaking up(not an option for me) or have that intimacy with another girl. I think that will solve the problem. If you have any tips, more than welcome or if you have or had a similar experience please share it with me!.

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Comments

Thursday, January 26, 2017 9:43 AM
A

I really don't think you should cheat. Have you not read the stories on here? All the hurt and pain and regret? If you want someone and something else leave your girlfriend.

 
Thursday, January 26, 2017 7:25 PM
Honest Husband

I agree with A.  Don't cheat.  You will not find what you are looking for in cheating.  Period.  If anything it will make it far worse.  You don't want to build on a relationsihp by adding a dark selfish secret to the mix. 

I know you pain.  The thoughts of your lady with another man are painful and can drive you crazy.  I get that.  You sound young so allow me to drop some truths on you.  1.  she didn't cheat on you.  You weren't in the picture at the time so it wasn't personally against you.  2.  It sounds like she's been pretty open and honest with you.  She could have staight up denied it.  She didn't.  Again, don't f'ing cheat.  Be better then that.  3.  Are you convinced you're going to find virgin if you break it off with her?  Good luck brother.  And lets say you did break it off with her,,,,, are you going to tell your next GF before having sexual relations?  And what if she breaks it off with you because the thought of you with another woman drives her crazy?  See what i did there??  

My advice.  Try not to focus on it or better yet, have lots and lots of sex and eventually you'll feel confident that you've done everything under the sun with her and no other man could ever compete with that.  Us older guys call this ruining her for anyone else.

 

Good luck my friend.  Stay strong. 

 

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