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My girlfriend cheated on me

Thursday, June 9, 2016 9:46 AM by Guest Rating: +13|-7

Ok so this might be a long story 

so me and my gf have been together for almost 2 years and we are both in college. So last October her sister got married and she met this guy "Bob" since they were both part of the wedding ( she a bridesmaid, him a grooms man) she told me how throughout the practices and dinners he would hit on her and during the wedding (which I attended) he made a bunch of sexual comments to her. I got mad but didn't say anything because it was a wedding and everyone was super drunk.so my gf sister and new husband moved into her moms basement till they saved to buy a hous. The husband and bob are like best friends so he will always be at my gf house, making comments, hitting on her and makes such all comments every time she went home ( she lives a couple hours away n bob lives in her town with his parents) over winter break she told me  how he slapped her ass once and I got pissed. So throughout the school year I guess my gf added bob on snapchat and I noticed she snapped him a lot as they had the best friend emoji next to his name. I got mad and she said that she liked snapping him and that there was nothing going on but I told her that's bs because how would she like me snapping someone that would make sexual approaches to me. (She got jealous I was following models on Instagram and made a huge argument about it) so she stopped for the most part. Couple weeks ago I went away on a trip and didn't have much service to talk to my gf. When I get home everything seem fine, we went out for drinks and stuff. Then that night while we were outside on the porch drinking I notice she went on snapchhat and again this guy had that best friend emoji meaning he was one of the top 3 people she snaps. I didn't say anything cuz I was drunk and didn't want to fight. The next day while she was showering I check her phone and confirm she has been snapping him while I was away on my trip. Then I check her Facebook messenger and my heart sank. She had been messenging him. I know it was wrong of me but I read the conversation and I saw that she messaged him first asking why he hadn't been snapchating her and saying she "kinda has a bf" he recalled that she gave him a lap dance one night she got drunk w him at her house (had no idea this happened) and said he was waiting on her sexy snaps and they talked about how they like to have sex.... I haven't confronted my gf and idk what to do

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Thursday, June 9, 2016 1:41 PM
Guest

why havent you confronted her? This is rediculous, not confronting her when knowing this is bound to happen is basically giving her permission. The only reason to not confront her is if you want to see if she will actually do it which can end horribly since you should already know that. confront her or even break up with her, hell confront bob as well and tell him to back the fuck off. otherwise your asking to be cucked

 
Thursday, June 9, 2016 4:07 PM
Guest

Give her an ultimatum: choose that guy or you. Don't let up until she makes a choice. Any sort of contact with that guy implies she chooses him. If she fours then dump her. 

 
Thursday, June 9, 2016 6:01 PM
Guest

   Send her a snap chat with a girl giving you a lap dance and say since you gave Bob one I figured  you didn't  mind.   By the way loose my number  its over.   She will mad but who cares fuck her. Move on. Stop being so stupid. She cheated. 

 
Thursday, June 9, 2016 10:39 PM
Guest

She gave a dude a lap dance. She rubbed on his dick. She hides her relationship with him from you. She probably  sexting  him. What the fuck else do you need. Your away and she plays. Shes cheating on you. Yes she already fucked this dude. She has no respect for you. Fuck giving her  any chances do what the guy above me said. End it like a boss  and drop the mic ūüé§. She probably  get mad and tell she fucked him and that's a good thing. When she does tell you, you say ------> I know whores will be whores. 

 
Thursday, June 16, 2016 7:00 AM
Ethan

Leave her ass, please. I was cheated on after 4 hears of a relationship and I never looked back. Don't let her walk all over you, you deserve better my dude.

 
Sunday, June 19, 2016 3:33 AM
Guest

break up with her dont say anything to her go to mexico have sex with lots of hooker 

come back buy new clothes talk to 10 different every saturday night hook up with them dont feel down if they rejected you go to another women and talk to them

dont take your ex back at any cost even if fart rainbow out of her pussy 

in 6 months she would be just another women if confornt her she will blame it on you i can bet on it 

 
Thursday, June 23, 2016 10:35 AM
Guest

Take some screen caps of the chats and the FB messenger. Or take pictures of them. Then either mail them to her, or print them out and leave them for her. Then disappear for a day or two. If she calls you begging to reconcile, listen to her and think it over carefully. If she calls saying it's over, then listen to her: it's over. If she does't call, it's over too.

 
Friday, June 24, 2016 9:32 AM
Guest

Every time you lick her pussy you are sucking on Bobs dick.   Ha ha ha 

 
Wednesday, July 20, 2016 11:19 AM
Guest

get away from her as fast as you can. She doesn't care about you, you want to believe she does but she doesn't. I'm sure 100% that she has times where she tells you that you are all she wants and needs. She's full of shit, don't even bother to dump her. Just leave her and do it now. She has a disorder, I can't remember what it's called. It has to do with being the focal point of everything. 

 
Friday, September 2, 2016 4:55 PM
Guest

There is no need to confront her. Just leave. She is offering you a lifetime of misery. If you talk with her about it, she won't change. She will just become a better liar. Is that what you want?  Just leave her. No confrontation, no fight, no discussion, just leave and get out while you still can. 

 

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