I am a 29 year old woman and I have been married to my husband for a year and a half. Before that, we had been on and off dating for more than 6 years. During the first year of our relationship I had caught him cheating on me with his coworker twice. I forgave him the first time and I broke up with him the second time. It wasnt more than 2 months after our break up until he made me fall for him again and I tried to fix our relationship. It seemed all happy for the first 6 months, I did get worried but he never showed any signs of cheating. Once we where at a dinner in this fancy restaurant and I excused myself to the bathroom. Only to return t see his hand on the waitress' ass while he was groping her. At that time I brushed it off and believed him when he told me that I saw wrong and I was being to harsh on him for it. But I guess I was not. We kept going to the same restaurant every other week. He used to state that he knew the owner of the restaurant and half way through our dinner he would excuse himself and leave in some room upstairs saying that he just wanted to talk to the manager since they where friends. One time I decided to follow him. It was true that he was going to the manager, but what I had no idea was that the manager was a woman and he was fucking both her and the waitress on her desk while I was waiting like an idiot downstairs. I was so heart broken that I could not even say anything. 

He admitted on having sex with both of them every time we went to that restaurant only when it came to me that the waitress had gotten pregnant from him! I broke up with him as soon as I found out about the pregnancy. However, my husband has a way of convincing me of having changed and not more than one month later we where back together. I became the babysitter of his son as soon as he was born and I ended up raising him as if he where my own son. 

I knew my that during the other four years of our relationship he was cheating on me with so many other women, however I had never caught him in act and neither did he ever do a false move so I could not really put it on him. Everyone began telling me that I was just imagining things when I told them he was cheating and all our friends had told me that he had truly changed this time. He never once pretended to stay over time at work, he did not leave the house at bizzare hours, he never left my side if we where out, so I guessed that he had truly changed himself. So when he asked me to marry him I accepted right away. One year into our marriage and we seemed to be living a happy life the two of us and his son whom I had legally adopted. 

Six months ago however, a woman came knocking on my door while my husband was out. She was holding a girl in her arms who was about 3 months old. The woman told me that she needed to speak to me about my husband and I let her in. Once inside she told me that she was a helper at our wedding, 22 years old and our wedding was her first job after she finished her school. She told me that during the wedding, my husband kept grabbing her and groping her everywhere, while she was walking with trays he would purpously push her against a wall just to coop a feel and at one point he even put his hands up her skirt and touched her pussy. She then continued to say that at one moment my husband had excused himself because there seemed to be a problem with lack of drinks - a situation which I remembered - however, he did not go to check inside like he said. Instead he had entered the kitchen and asked her assistance, he took her upstairs (our hall had bedrooms upstairs) and he had fucked her in one of the beds. She kept apologizing to me repeteadly saying that she should not have let my husband do that to her, however he was telling her that if she doesn't have sex with him he would report her to her seniors and she would loose her job. I was devastated. To make things worse, she informed me that the girl in her hand was my husbands daughter which she concieved on my wedding day! 

She continued to talk. She told me that the reason she came to tell me was because she felt increadibly guilty. My husband knew about her pregnancy and she said that after her daughter was born, my husband when to look for her and once again began a sexual relationship with her. I had no idea what to do. I knew that if I talked to him he would deny everything so instead I decided to just follow him around in hope to actually catch him in act. It took me a while since my husband had ways to hide himself but a month ago, he said he was going to a doctor's appointment. I followed him and I saw him enter the same restaurant from before. I knew something was up. He walked straight upstairs and I followed him. There was the said waistress, the mother of his son, waiting for him and he fucked her. I did not stay for long but I knew that there was another woman inside, probably the manager from before as well. 

I met my friend that night and I spilled everything to her. She suggested that I give him some of his own medicine. She said that I should keep pretending to be happy and idiotic while I go out and grab some men for myself, however I am not sure whether I should do that or just divorce him straight away.