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Monday, March 7, 2016 1:36 PM by Emma Rating: +7|-3

My fiancée and I have been together for 3.5 years. We have good days and bad days. I notice that he's into porn a lot and wants to watch so much it's getting in the way of our sex life. It's been a week and a half since we last had sex and that's too much for me. I know it's because of the porn. I love him and I want to be with him but sexually he's just ruining it all. He won't even let me touch his penis. He's become too desensitized. Sex is always the same when it happens and usually on the same day, usually once a week. I'm getting so bored. I want to say with him but lately I have been thinking about going somewhere else to get what I need since he won't give it to me. Talking doesn't work. I have tried that. Any advice? 

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Tuesday, March 8, 2016 5:45 AM

  He has a problem and might have porn induce ED. Look it up. Don't  cheat. Let him choose between you and the porn. He probably  won't be able to get it up so he's going to get depress and lash out. Hopefully  it's not too bad. He can recover from it within 3 weeks. If he chooses porn or won't talk  run away and never look back.8

Tuesday, March 8, 2016 8:00 AM

Make him choose: his right hand or you. Give him 2 weeks to decide and he chooses his hand you leave him. Make sure he knows what will happen. 

Tuesday, March 8, 2016 4:27 PM

hey Emma where you from?

Tuesday, March 8, 2016 4:33 PM

chicago you? I'm 

Tuesday, March 8, 2016 4:34 PM

emma send me a email

Tuesday, March 8, 2016 10:52 PM

Whatever his problem is, it is not your problem. It is probably more than porn. Maybe another woman. If he can't be honest and straighten himself out, he is not husband material, let alone father material. Give him a month to get his shit together. He needs to go for a medical check up and a psychological check up. At the end of a month if there is no improvement or at least an understanding of his problems - cut him loose. 

Wednesday, March 9, 2016 10:24 AM

I was having the same problem , after i took Anafronil antidepressent drug daily , i gave up porn and  moreover became much better in bed

Saturday, April 2, 2016 8:42 PM

Move on. Hes not worth it. Lucky u know his bad habits now before you got married. 

Sunday, April 10, 2016 3:24 AM

Cheat on his ass, dear. Keep us updated on your descision!


Wednesday, August 24, 2016 10:21 AM

Situations like this are never as simple as someone makes them sound. If we heard his story, it wouldn't sound anything like yours. If you really want to fix it, look at the story as he would tell it, and temporarily believe that he is right about everything and that you are wrong. Make the changes that he asks of you. Do the very best that you can. IF that doesn't fix things then you will that it is his fault. If making the changes he asks of you fixes things then you need to try to figure out if what is asking is reasonable or not. You only need to try this if you really want the relationship to work out. You need to give him what he wants for a month or two to se if that will fix things.

if you don't want to do that then just leave the relationship.  the rEason that I suggest this is the that it's unusual for a man to prefer porn over a live woman unless he has resentment toward her for some reason.  Giving him everything he wants to several weeks with a good attitude should help you identiy what's going on. Don't worr if you can't or won't do that. Most people are really unwilling to give much to sav a relationship.

think carefully if you ever criticize him or put him down.   If you do, stop it now.


Wednesday, August 24, 2016 10:52 AM

It's not him that not pleasing you it's you that's not pleasing him. That fact that he's more into to porn then into you means he wants more sexually. What you need to do is become a pornstar for him. In the bedroom your boring those porb women are for from boring and they are very active 


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