I've been with this girl for 3 years now, she was the love of my life... I found out she cheated the other night and this is our story.

Met her through a friend in high school, we went to different schools but we made it work. Went to prom with her, spent every minute I could with her... After high school she went to college 3 hours away. After the summer I joined the military, she supported me through the toughest 3 months of my life. Came to my graduation, met my entire family. I met her entire family... I ended up being in Maryland for 9 months, then moved to North Carolina where I've been for a year. While in Maryland she started acting weird and jealous, I was about 10 hours away (by car) and I couldn't leave to see her. She would literally get jealous of anything I did that involved other females. She would get jealous that I liked other women's pictures on Instagram and give me so much shit. Caught her sifting through my Instagram, Facebook and Twitter and ended up changing my passwords so she couldn't get in. We took a month break after that and I ended up talking to someone else while we were apart. We never ended up having sex, and it ended a while before we got back together. I told her about it and surprisingly she wasn't that upset about the whole thing. Anyway fast forward to 6 months ago, she cheats but never tells me (with an old co-worker of hers). At that point I was probably more in love with her than I ever had been, even for anyone else. I just got back from spending 10 days with her (normally I only get to come home on long weekends or whenever I feel ballsy enough to spend a lot on regular weekends) and having the time of my life. It basically felt like falling in love with her all over again, and we haven't spent that much time together since we were in high school. One of my old buddies from back home calls me up and tells me the whole situation, and that the kid she cheated on me with has a video.  I was really drunk last night so I couldn't really comprehend it and I just kept drinking to numb the pain. I pretty much ended it today and it was probably the hardest break up I've ever been through... I mean I fucking loved this woman. I'm having the hardest time thinking about why she would do this when she doesn't even seem like the type to. Fuck it though, 3 years of my life wasted, that's 3 years worth of wasted tonight. Fuckin Jody man.