Monday, November 23, 2015 9:51 AM by Guest
I found out yesterday that my wife has been seeing another man for at least eight months. I'm so heart broken and scared to death. I'm 46 and she is one year older than me. We have been married sixteen years and dated five years before that. I found pictures on her phone of them having intimate relationships with each other and it made me sick to my stomach. I think I cried two days and did not confront her for six days just so I could have time to cool down. The last thing I wanted was some huge fight or worse. I asked her and told her I read the texts and looked at the pictures. She immediately admitted it and said she was in love with him and started to pack her bags , of course I was devastated. She said I wasn't good in bed and he was so great, this almost killed me. She said she would be getting divorce papers done that day and would serve me soon after. I don't feel like a man anymore and can't stand to even look in the mirror. What did I do wrong and why wasn't I good enough for her. I have no idea what to do next or where to start. I spoiled her like crazy and can't understand why she doesn't love or want me anymore. Thank you for reading my pathetic story.