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I cheated on my boyfriend with my boss

I cheated on my boyfriend

Monday, February 22, 2016 3:03 PM by Guest Rating: +42|-24

I'm 19, my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for two and half years and I love him with all my heart. 

 

I work at a restaurant with a great team and awesome manager. To give some backstory my manager (30 years old) and I have been talking on and off for about 3 months, we started talking when he got my number when we with some staff out for drinks, he was flirting with me all night and asked me to come home with him and I declined. Since then we've talked, I've sent him pictures and that's about as far as it has gone until 3 days ago. I stayed with my friend and some of the staff and my manager for drinks after work, my manger grabbed my hand and took me into the kitchen and kissed me and then we went back to continue parting. we kissed a couple times throughout the night in secret and then he was leaving, he took me outside and asked me to come home with him and I again declined. We kissed a bit more and then he left and I went home. Now fast forward to last night we had our staff party, all the stuff were pretty fucking drunk, we started out on a party bus, went bowling and then went to a bar, a lot of them went home once we got to the bar so it was me, my manager, 2 other girls and one of the bartenders. My manager took me to a booth away from everyone else and we just started taking. I started crying just about some life things and he kissed me and held me to console me. everyone came and found us and was consoling me and we decided to go to my managers house to hang out for a bit. Everyone left so it was just me and my manager... we went to his room and were laying down in bed when he started to kiss me, I told him I couldn't do anything for multiple reasons, first because I have a boyfriend, second because I was way too drunk and third I was on my period lol, he said he didn't care and undressed me. He started sucking my boobs and kissing my body all over, he went down and started eating me out and then got undressed and laid on top of me and started fucking me. I told him to fuck me from behind so he did. It felt so good but I was too drunk to orgasm. He was done quickly as I know he was wishing for this moment for a long time. Once he finished he started to pass out so I gathered my clothes and put them back on and called my boyfriend to pick me up, he thought I was at ones of the girls houses. My manager and I kissed before I left and went home. I'm so hungover today and I feel so numb to it all. It doesn't even really feel like it happened but yet I just keep apologizing to my boyfriend even though he has no idea why. I can't tel him. I've already fucked up our relationship before by being an idiot and I really really don't want to lose him. I'm such an awful girlfriend. I told myself I would never chef on him ever, and I genuinely thought I wouldn't. I texted my manager today and said I was sorry for last night and that it can never happen again, he agreed and apologized to. I guess I'm on here just to vent about it. 

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Tuesday, February 23, 2016 3:15 AM
Guest

I think you should tell your bf what you did. What you did was wrong and it would be hurtful for him to find out. But better you than someone else. Honesty could help or end your relationship. Telling him the truth about your feelings would be respectful. It's shameful, but it's best to acknowledge what you did instead of hiding it. Before you decide what to to, think about whether you truly want to be in a relationship with him and what it would mean if it ended. If you do tell him, I suggest that it's somewhere private in case there is yelling and crying. Don't expect a reasonable response from him immediately since he probably won't be calm about this. Give him time to cool off and think.

 
Tuesday, February 23, 2016 7:15 AM
Guest

Shame on the 30 year old pedophile for praying on a teen. You NEED to tell your boyfriend wether you like it or not. I dont buy your text to end it with the pedophile, I bet you will do it again if the time is right. Calm down on the alcohol when your around that pervert manager of yours. I bet he's married or has a girlfriend. If you do it again consider yourself a FUCKEN SLUT. And dont say how much you love your boyfriend cause apparantley you DON'T.

 
Tuesday, February 23, 2016 7:10 PM
Guest

You are a slut. Tell him what happened and don't get pissed when he leaves.

 
Tuesday, February 23, 2016 9:32 PM
Guest

You should be ashamed of yourself. You need to tell him now or the pain will be worse if you keep it

 
Wednesday, February 24, 2016 2:48 AM
Guest

You fucking whore cunt

 
Thursday, February 25, 2016 3:53 PM
Guest

However , you can live the life and it's not the end . You can tell it to your bf and face that fault . It's the only  and only way to live right .

 

 
Friday, February 26, 2016 7:26 AM
Guest

U are the reason I'd never get married, u nasty piece of trash!

 
Friday, February 26, 2016 9:21 AM
i cheated on my boyfriend with my manage

firstly I'm from Canada. I'm legally an adult as of 18 and I'll actually be 20 soon so no he's not a pedophile lol, also no he doesn't have a girlfriend or a wife. 

 
Monday, February 29, 2016 5:38 PM
Guest

You are young. You are stupid to be drinking - period. You are even more stupid to be drinking with people that do not care about you. Of course, you knew where the night would lead, you had a preview the night before. So, you intentionally cheated on your boyfriend. It was not an error, or a mistake - be honest with yourself. Then, be honest with your boyfriend. If you want to continue your relationship with him, if you want it to grow, you cannot have any lies or secrets. If he cannot forgive you, then it was not meant to be. You have to be honest - in order to start to regain your lost honor and self respect. If you don't, you will be headed down the path to a shitty life of deception anxiety and pain.

 
Monday, February 29, 2016 6:12 PM
Guest

You just drunk, you are not slut. When you are sober enough so decline him. Ask yourself, which man do you like most? If you choose your bf, you have to resign and tell him. If you love your boss, tell your bf and break up with him. You have choice 

 
Monday, February 29, 2016 6:12 PM
Guest

You just drunk, you are not slut. When you are sober enough so decline him. Ask yourself, which man do you like most? If you choose your bf, you have to resign and tell him. If you love your boss, tell your bf and break up with him. You have choice 

 
Tuesday, March 1, 2016 9:25 AM
Guest

You're not a slut at all. This happens, it sucks, but it happens. Drinking doesnt mean you're going to have sex! These other comments are so stupid. Honestly, if theres anyway it could happen agsin, tell him. If not, dont. It just causes unnecassary pain. Ignore these comments, they're unfair and cruel

 
Wednesday, March 2, 2016 9:41 PM
Guest

Elizabeth Barkhudaryan

This better not be you !!!

Call me now!

I Just found out bout you

I knew somehing was up!

 
Thursday, March 3, 2016 9:12 PM
Guest

I hope youve already told your boyfriend about it. Its a way to get off that awful feeling. I'm sure its haunting you. Unless youre really sorry and you admit that its a mistake you can start your life again. I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years and i told him about it. Were in a LDR. We arent talking now but it's the price i have to pay. Im facing the truth now and i deeply regret hurting him. Im still hoping he would forgive me no matter how long it takes. Theres no reason about what you did.you know its truly wrong but admitting your mistake would mean a lot! If he really loves you he will forgive you. Love keeps no record of wrongs. Hope you will be enlightened.talk with your trusted friends and ask for help. God bless you!

 
Wednesday, March 9, 2016 10:33 PM
Guest

you fucking whore!

 

 
Thursday, March 10, 2016 9:39 AM
Oh dear

haha glad im not the only ine to do this....chin up put it at back your mind n pretend it never happened, i did worked for me xxx

 
Monday, March 14, 2016 1:50 PM
Michael

The best thing to do is tell him. You kissed him before when you weren't drunk. Then you thought it was a good idea to hang out with him again after that and have sex with him. When, if you tell him, It will extremely upset him. Especially when he knows that he picked you up after you did all that, and gave him a goodnight kiss before you left. You would have to quit your job and give him time to be with you again. You may have messed up the relationship, because I would not stand for that. I would go up to your workplace and assault the manager. I never comment on these types of sites, I'm always searching up girlfriends cheating whenever I'm bored, and this is a really sick story.

 
Thursday, March 17, 2016 11:57 PM
Truth Speaker

You're right, you are awful! If you really loved your boyfriend as you claim honesty wouldn't be a problem, hell you never would have been in your manager's bed to begin with if you really loved him.

Tell your boyfriend what you did so he can dump you, that way you can be with your manager all you want, and your boyfriend can be rid of his lying, cheating, dirty skank of a girlfriend.

It's win win.

 
Wednesday, July 20, 2016 12:06 AM
Guest

I feel so sorry for your bf ,  you knew you were in the wrong the moment you  started texting the other guy but  you kept going and decided  to send  pictures.. and you cant blame the alachol   because you still knew what you were doing was wrong  ,  you should be stoned  to death for that shit  

 
Wednesday, July 20, 2016 12:11 AM
Guest

Oh and the reason   the manager  was cool with not fucking you again was because he wasn't  planning  on banging  you again , he was just  going to root  and boot you because thats about  all your  good for 

 
Thursday, July 21, 2016 7:22 AM
Guest

She need not to apologise. Are they married?

 

 
Sunday, August 7, 2016 3:05 AM
Guest

You cheated on him the time you kissed your manager the first time and began sending him pictures of you. The fuckin doesnt really matter it's just a consumation of your infidelity. It's best your tell your bf and let him go find his happiness in someone who truly loves him. Your cunt clearly has a mind of its own and does not listen to your heart.

 
Saturday, August 27, 2016 11:36 AM
Guest

You are 19..  so don't sweat it so much.  So you got drunk and got fucked by your boss.  Big deal, it happens..  the real question is, what happens now?  Tell your boyfriend?  He will just go into a jealous rage and get in trouble for beating up your boss..  so make it about getting drunk but skip the sex part.  Nothing happened.  You just passed out from being drunk.  Lay low for a while.  Tell your boss he has to chill out for a while.  Then, decide what you want.  Maybe dump your boyfriend and experience a little freedom?   

 

 
Saturday, September 3, 2016 5:32 PM
Guest

Sweetie, it is okay. Accidents happen, next time do not get drunk and avoid your boss.

 
Tuesday, September 6, 2016 7:36 PM
Guest

Dont listen to the majority of these comments.  Shit happens and you move on.  If you love your boyfriend, then you will learn from a mistake and it's over with.  I could write a book on stupid things I've done...don't beat yourself up.  This post is a few months old so you've probably figured out what to do by now, but just thought I would reply anyway.  Most of the other comments come from people who aren't human...they don't realize how sex and attraction are extraordinary and powerful feelings that are difficult to overcome or turn down.  Good luck and don't be so hard on yourself!!!

 
Tuesday, September 6, 2016 8:30 PM
ALF

Yes, you are an awful girlfriend.  And from what I've gathered from your story, you can be anybody's girl-for-the-moment.  Your boyfriend deserves so much better.  You say you love him with all your heart, and don't want to loose him, yet you drop your panties faster than a crack whore for the first dude with a smile and a beer in his hand.  Ain't gonna work out girlie.  You're a creature of habit.  You've messed up multiple times over, and you're going to keep messing up.  You give a lot of detail between you and your manager, which suggests that you weren't that drunk after all.  And you didn't feel guilty about anything if you kissed your manager when your boyfriend came to pick you up.  You should start thinking about the single life.  Crash and burn is coming for you real soon.

And to the guest above:

Most of the commentators here demonstrate a level of humanity that you will never know.  We also understand the concepts of honor, loyalty, and common decency.  You and the writer would act to dishonor yourselves, and the ones you profess you love, then lie to keep them tied to you.  However, truth has a way of shining through.  May truth shine on you.

 
Thursday, September 8, 2016 3:40 PM
Guest

omg do not listen to these awful comments. you are not a bad person. Honestly, older men know they can take advantage of younger naive girls. I've gone through something similar but I didn't know how to turn down my boss without him treating me indifferent at work. I told my boyfriend the truth though. I know it's hard and you feel guilty for what happened, but he deserves to know. and it's the only way to move on from it. 

 
Saturday, September 17, 2016 11:41 AM
Guest

Keep fucking both of them if they both are good in bed8

 
Tuesday, September 20, 2016 4:42 AM
Guest

Wucking fhore!

 
Tuesday, September 27, 2016 3:53 PM
Guest

1st 2nd and 3rd reasons not to and you still went thru with fucking him even after he ate out your nasty bloody pussy!! Sounds like a match made in hell to me lol

 

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