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I cheated on my fiance

I cheated on my boyfriend

Saturday, April 30, 2016 11:28 PM by Emma456 Rating: +7|-9

Me and my fiance have been together for about five years. We met in high school and i fell for him so fast. I was crushing on him for such about 3 months before he actually noticed me. During that time he was obsessing over a girl, which i had no idea about until after a month. She never gave him a chance because she was not interested in him. But I could tell that there was still something there. He still had feelings for her. I confronted him about it, and he denied everything. After having 6 months together, one day i went through his phone to find a cute selfie we took together to send it to myself, but I found about 10 pictures of the girl he had been obsessing over. Which broke my heart because I really thought me and him were meant to be. I didn't break up with becuz i felt like i couldnt and I forgave him. About 3 years passed and I was still not over the way he made me feel. The way he had humiliated me, I felt that I was his second choice and I just wanted to get him back so bad, but I couldn't fully get myself to do that becuz I loved him. I felt so unwanted by him, I got on a site where you meet friends. And many guys were talking to me, but there was one guy who really got my attention. He automatically wanted to take me out after just a conversation and he thought I was beautiful. After 5 years of being in a relationship my boyfriend lost the touch, and he no longer would even take care of me. He would no longer make me feel special or sexy or beautiful or appreciated. So I continued talking to this new guy and I told him I had a boyfriend. When me and him met up for the first time it was so magical, he made me feel butterflies in my stomach and just talking and walking with him was perfect. I felt a strong connection and bond with him. I started getting feelings. He asked me if I could be his cuddlebuddy and I said yes. So we would meet up and get in his car and watch a movie together. We would cuddle in his car and we watched the Notebook. Not realizing how bad of a decision this was, we watched the movie and I became so aroused, and I saw that he did too. I started tickling him and he tickled me and then it led to me making out him. I didnt mean to do it but I did and it was incredible kiss. But we both knew it was bad, which made it even more desireable to me. I began to fantasize even more and more about him, the sad part is after the kiss I quickly ran to see my boyfriend and I kissed him in the lips, I guess I was trying to see if there was a difference, but i didn't want to realize if there was. I felt so bad about kissing the other guy because my boyfriend is good to me so faithful, but I guess I just wanted to be truly desired by another guy who didn't have another girl in his mind. Who just wanted me. I tried staying away from the guy cuz i didnt want to lose my boyfriend but I desired the other guy so much. I saw him again. and this time we didn't kiss but we held hands and cuddled and I honestly felt so safe we talked and talked and time just flew. It felt like it was one of the most beautiful moments ever. Because me and him had so much in common and we had so much fun with eachother. We laughed and just connected. He was my bestfriend. I hated feeling like this because my boyfriend didnt deserve me being all triflin because he was working all day and I lied to him and told him I was on campus at my college. Me and the guy I had fallen for, I stopped talking to him for a while, but then started again and we sexted, we have this sexual connection that is so animal like I cant explain it. Anyways we sexted but i quickly stopped cuz I knew it was wrong.  My boyfriend proposed to me not too long after and I said yes because I realized I truly loved him. I know that he is the one I sincerely love. But the other guy keeps trying to talk to me but I am trying to ignore his texts but it is so hard. I love my fiance and I know I fucked up. But if i tell him, wat I did he wud leave me in a heartbeat. I love him but I am scared. I dont want to lose him, but I dont want to have this guilt in me. I feel so guilty. 

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Sunday, May 1, 2016 1:45 AM
Guest

The other guy is starting to want more. You have to be careful cuz the guy your talking about seems looney. What MAN wants a SNUGGLE buddy 1st of all. Hes gay for that. 2 understand that the man the lives under tha same roof is RESPONSIBLE  for you. This snuggle buddy (lol lmao) of yours doesn't have to do anything for you. Either way your dumb and your gonna lose your fiance lmao. Good luck

 
Sunday, May 1, 2016 4:09 AM
LanaH102

So let's see here. I love reading these stories by people who put a plan in place, executed the plan and you had so much fun with this guy you intentially went back to him for round two but feel so sad and terrible about boyfriend... 

 

What you should have written was how much fun you had doing it all and feel excited about posting it to the world. I think you'd gain more respect for being honest

 
Sunday, May 1, 2016 5:31 AM
Guest

LOL "snuggle buddy" That made me laugh he just wants to get closer to you so he can fuck you. No offense but you sound naive. 

 
Sunday, May 1, 2016 9:08 AM
Guest

  The first part  sounds like your trying  to justify  your action. No way to get out of it, you fucked up. Did you ever stop and think hey I'm an adult let me talk o my boyfriend. No out needed your selfish needs taken care of first.   NOT EXCUSING HIS ACTION.The photo of the other chick sounds suspect but it two wrongs don't  make a right. You can't start a relationship  with lies. You need to tell him and explain why you did it and explain why the photo. Grow the fuck up. Harsh? Too bad life's a bitch and so was what you did.

 
Sunday, May 1, 2016 9:32 PM
Guest

Everyone makes mistakes in life and the reality is, we all end up paying for them slowly. Just keep in mind that if your fiance were to fuck up in the same way what would you do? Stop and realize that your actions not only affect you but others around you and in this case your fiance. Yes he messed up in the past. He was interested in another girl, however you continuing with him meant that you were able to let it go, if you couldnt than you shouldnt have continued with him. You have to be able to forgive him for his wrongdoings if you see a future with him. Too you have to realize that if its been 5 years,  and he proposed he must love you. I know you messed up when you went with the other guy, but as long as you do not speak to this guy again and be able to forgive yourself first is the first step. The next step is up to you to tell him or not. You have to know what you feel in your heart. Life is not easy, I dont know you and I know that there must be a backstory of your past that  you did not write about like your childhood and past experiences. I do not know what you have gone through in life that made you crave this attention from another man. Perhaps the lack of love in a household or for yourself. Just keep in mind that you deserve so much more than this. As long as you didn't sleep with him im sure you can fix this. If you truly realized your mistake and are willing to never do it again and this time stay faithful to your fiance, than I believe everything will be okay and turn out for the best.  I have hope for you. Good luck.

 
Tuesday, May 3, 2016 12:19 PM
Guest

It does suck when they don't appreciate you anymore and what you do for them, and don't touch you anymore even though you try and talk to them.. Maybe they deserve it

 
Tuesday, May 3, 2016 5:10 PM
Rob

I would confess.  If you confess chances are he will forgive you.  People are more likely to forgive if the other person confesses.  If he finds out on his own most likely he will break it off and it will end up ugly. 

 
Friday, May 6, 2016 4:27 AM
Fritz

you should talk to your fiance about it. it will be better if he knows about the 'snuggle buddy' from you than others..

 

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