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I feel so tempted to cheat

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Friday, April 8, 2016 12:50 AM by Guest Rating: +3|-4

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now(long distance — we see each other about once a year) and all these years we've been together I've not even once thought of cheating on him. But a few weeks ago we had an argument. Horrible one. I was so depressed. We went on a break that eventually turned into a breakup. I started flirting with random guys online, and some of those chats even went quite ... intimate. Even when my boyfriend and I talked things out and got back together I still had this lingering itch to just go out and do something crazy. I love my boyfriend but I don't feel loved. I don't feel he puts in as much effort as I do to keep things going. All he cares is that things remain static. I don't feel exciting or beautiful anymore; I feel plain and boring. But all those guys I flirted with called me beautiful. It was so nice to be appreciated 

 

The worst part is that a week before my boyfriend and I broke up apparently he did drugs. Frankly I hate drugs. I don't care if others do it but I don't date drug-takers. And he lied to me about it. It still hurts my heart when I think about it. I want to forgive him and get over with everything but I can't. And I feel that that's what is making me want to cheat; the feeling of betrayal. I just don't know what to do. 

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Friday, April 8, 2016 7:33 AM
Adsy

move on and have fun... what you waiting for.

 
Friday, April 8, 2016 8:46 AM
Guest

Don't cheat on him. Break up if anything. That's wrong. 

 
Friday, April 8, 2016 2:21 PM
Guest

agreed, break up with him but NEVER EVER cheat, you will open a door to a life of hell you will regret forever, and it will haunt you in future relationships. Keep your self respect, always be faithful, you will hate yourself and rightly so, you will no longer be a good person but join the masses of low life pieces of shit.

 
Saturday, April 9, 2016 3:28 PM
Guest

Break up with him and leave. Dont cheat. 

 
Saturday, April 9, 2016 4:17 PM
Guest

Cheat on his ass, but don't get caught. You'll probably enjoy/love the thrill from doing it.

 
Sunday, April 10, 2016 5:19 AM
Guest

Just to clarify I only feel like it. I'm not actually going to. I love my boyfriend and I want to work things out before anything else. We had a spark for three years and I'll be damned if I can't find that spark again. 

 

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