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Friday, January 8, 2016 4:38 PM by Guest Rating: +5|-11

Married life has been really difficult for me. At first it was great. We got along tremendously. We did things together. My husband worked to help support our household and children. It's just gone from great to good to okay to totally sucks. The only thing we do together is have sex. It's Good sex and it's often, but my husband has become lazy, fat, and won't work. I suffered an injury that ended my career. A career I loved, my dream job. I haven't worked in over 17 years because of it. I am on disability. My husband took a fall, had surgery and was released to go back to work on full duty. He worked 3 days and quit his job. That was 6 years ago. He has said he is never going to work again. This is a horrible example for our son. We live on next to nothing. I have a good friend that I am attracted to. He's funny, sweet, romantic, charismatic, sexy as hell. He's attracted to me too. He's married as well. We've gotten together for casual conversation and coffee. We used to date, but went separate ways. He told me he knows I was good for him and he was an idiot for letting me go. He said he needs time to work things out. He had originally told me he had a girlfriend and I found out he's married. I went off on him like a crazy mad woman. I had told him I would leave my husband to be with him. There was no reason for him to lie to me about being married. I don't understand. I am crushed over the fight we had. I am ready to put it behind me. I texted him and asked if he was still pissed at me. I got a simple NO. That was it. I want so badly for this man to want me the way I want him. I would do anything. I am so unhappy with my life. 

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Saturday, January 9, 2016 3:29 AM
me

It a great feeling to catch your spouse while he was cheating on you

 
Saturday, January 9, 2016 7:28 AM
Guest

  OK your husband is an asshole but so is you boyfriend. The last post that says me. If you cought him cheating you should've  left. Your married and he's  married. Two people who took vows to go ahead and break it. He cheated on his wife and he Wil cheat on you. He already  started by lying  to you. Wake up. If your not happy leave but don't cheat. Never give anyone a reason to call you a whore. 

 
Monday, January 11, 2016 9:00 PM
Guest

Let me ask you a question.. How would you feel if your husband cheats on you? I'm guessing you'd feel like shit and worthless.. Your "boyfriend" doesn't want anything todo with you anymore get over it. Cheating gets you no where!! Divorced your husband and get your shit together you OLD HAG!!!! 

 
Sunday, January 17, 2016 6:27 AM
Guest

A relationship built on a lie cannot survive. This is layers of lies.  Sadly your in the middle of an emotional affair and frankly won't see things straight for a while. Right now you only focus the negatives of your husband and won't see the positives. At least try couples therapy. If either of you won't then there is little chance. 

 

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